Karma of loneliness and lack of children. How to work out the karma of family, relationships and loneliness: instructions for a happy life. Why do destructive generic programs arise?

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Karmic debt - what is it

Man comes into this world to learn, to receive life experience. He is given a certain destiny, according to which the individual must experience all emotional experiences, both good and bad. As he behaves in this life, karma will be worked out.

In his lifetime, a person will not be able to work out all types, so he is given a large number of lives, so that he can close all the existing karmic debts.

To close the debt, you must have as much time as it took for the development of the karmic situation. An example of bad karma: you were hit by a drunk driver, then fled the scene of the accident. Everyone blames him, they will probably judge him. But if you dig through the centuries, it turns out that in the last incarnation you drove over it on your wagon, also being drunk. The situation repeats itself, only in reverse. Everything in the Universe is in balance, the balance of contrasts is maintained.

How to find out if there is a karmic debt

Signs of heavy karma:

The individual makes great efforts, but nothing happens in his life.
There is a constant deficit of strength, energy, joy. For example, a person starts a new business, but suddenly an obstacle arises in the form of a lack of enthusiasm, strength or money.
Constantly there are quarrels, conflict situations for no apparent reason.
The “black streak” in the form of losses, losses, disruption of plans - everything indicates the presence of a karmic debt that needs to be closed.

All tests are given not in order to prevent one from rising, but in order to think about the correctness of one's actions, thoughts, reflections, and then engage in atonement for sins, purification of the soul.

Important! Karmic debts can be worked out to one and all! But first you need to establish the cause, to identify which laws of KARMA are violated.

What does it mean to work? After establishing the cause and karmic debt, it is important to understand how to pay off debts. Then work on developing the necessary qualities in yourself, apologize to those to whom you are guilty, repent. There are cases when you have to turn to a spiritual mentor.

Often, part of the debt can be written off by itself if a person changes his behavior, begins to lead a righteous life in compliance with all karmic laws, do good deeds, think correctly, without judging or blaming anyone.

Healing will come when work is done on oneself, the realization of one's mistakes according to karmic laws. When an individual changes himself into better side, then reality will take the direction of change for the better.

By fixing the debt, you can get rid of the severity of the trouble. What leads to karmic debt:

failure to fulfill promises;
abandonment of tasks and goals in life;
craving for appropriation of someone else's;
unwillingness to cleanse one's soul, engage in self-development;
rejection of human laws.

How to make your life better

Karma is the greatest Teacher, you just need to correctly reveal your potential. You yourself create your own destiny, if you are unhappy, then change, let go of grievances and complaints, because they will not solve your problem.

What does it mean to work out a karmic connection. Consider the example of relationships with inharmonious partners that karma gives us. Such people appear in ours so that we try to close our karmic debt. You hate them, but you have to be with them every day.

Such a connection cannot be broken, it can only be worked out. How to fix the situation? We must get rid of the hatred for this man. To forgive him everything without demanding gratitude, then the debt will dissolve by itself. Also some tips to help you:

Do not enter into conflicts, even if you really want to.
Do not react to the provocative actions of the partner in retribution.
Do not swear, do not bicker, do not offend, do not be offended yourself either.
Avoid developing hatred, jealousy, envy and the desire for revenge.
Do not try to keep close to you.
Don't demand anything.
Do not expect from him that in response to your kind attitude, he will suddenly change a lot.

Cultivate acceptance of everything that happens and, of course,. Do not row against the current, but try to catch the wave so that you can go to a new life on it.

For some people, pride prevents them from accepting this method of behavior. But here it is important to understand that love and forgiveness do not humiliate, on the contrary, you stand in the position of giving, not asking.

How to understand that karma has been worked out? It's very simple - you feel gratitude to him for the treatment, even warm feelings, you are free from each other and can calmly go your own way, not remembering what he did wrong. If you still have not freed yourself from hatred for him, then the retribution has not been worked out and you can be treated again by the same unpleasant karmic partner.

If the relationship didn't work out

You have noticed that things don’t work out with your loved one, you get angry, even hate, but you live together. It means that by karma he came to heal you, perhaps because of a relationship in another life. But how to break the karma of relationships in order to live on, remove the negative charge to this partner.

You also have to work on yourself. Or you remove grievances, claims against him and live on. By removing all this, you will understand what this partner came to treat you for. Perhaps your relationship will move to a new level when you don’t react to his “overshoots” as painfully as before.

If you decide to finally break off relations, then thank him for the lessons, let him go on all 4 sides. If you have received relief, you can meet him as a stranger, you have neither anger nor resentment - your connection is broken.

How to close family karma

So that the sins of the family do not interfere with your happiness, you need to work them out through or rituals. The debts of the clan are especially insidious, because they are passed on to children and grandchildren. It is the descendants who must restore the balance, even if they do not know which of his kind behaved incorrectly.

Ancestral karma is also cleansed through mercy, creation, respectful attitude towards people and the whole world. How to find out what kind of debts there are?

If the debts are heavy, then handicapped children may be born in the family or they die in infancy. Diseases, problems that arise out of nowhere, bad family relationships, discord, quarrels, weak energy indicate karmic debts.

12 generations influence fate. It would be nice to have information about the fate of 6-7 generations in order to know what to correct.

How to come to the healing of tribal karma:

Go to church to improve your karma. A strong personality will quickly close family debts.
It is necessary to read prayers for 40 days, without missing a day. If you missed it, then read it all over again. First you need to read “Our Father” three times, “Theotokos, Virgin, rejoice”, “For the cleansing of the family”
Finish reading the Thanksgiving Prayer.
Thus, you will beg forgiveness for the sins of the family.

Their children will have to work off the sins of their parents. There is no need to condemn your parents, accept them as they are, forgive for all children's insults, if any. Surround your parents with care and selfless love.

It is important to work off the karma of relatives and friends with the help of penitential prayer. Ask the Almighty to forgive your own sins, as well as your ancestors.

Cleansing on a Spiritual Level

There are different ways and rituals of liberation from the burden of karma. But the main one is "Forgiveness", which has an inseparable connection with repentance.

We will always find something for which we need to forgive and for which we ask for forgiveness. When we forgive someone, we release him in peace, when we ask for forgiveness, we ourselves are freed from the burden.

These actions can be performed hundreds of times anytime, anywhere. They make it possible to get rid of the burden that does not allow us to follow the bright path of self-development.

Sequencing:

You need to sit down, relax, take a deep breath and exhale, then repeat again. Exhaling, release all tension, all heaviness, feel lightness.
Imagine that the person who offended you, or whom you offended, is standing in front of you.
Tell him "I'm sorry" or "I'm sorry" .
After you need to say: “Forgive me, and I forgive you. I forgive and let go of all the bad things that happened between us.”

How to give impulse to the Universe

To overcome the karma of loneliness, it is necessary to start the impulse of expectation of happiness.

Do the work to attract the soul that seeks you in space.

Imagine the person you would like to see next to you, try to feel his breath.
Light breathing behind the left shoulder is represented by women, and slightly in front of the right shoulder - by men.
Mentally talk to this person. Imagine what he said. You will be surprised how close he is to you in spirit, how harmony has come.
Wherever you go, do not lose this feeling of happiness, this harmony. This feeling will attract a kindred spirit.
Imagine how good you are together. Do not tell anyone about your energy work.
Pray to God to send you a good good life partner, ask for a happy family life.

Because of what loneliness arises can be found by hand:

If loneliness is given by birth, then the “marriage line” will not be on the left palm.
If a "crown of celibacy" is imposed, then these lines will not be on the right palm, but they are on the left.
The marriage line is located on the side of the beginning of the hill of Mercury.

This concludes the first part of our penetration into the secrets of how to clear karma.

Prayer for the cleansing of the family or prayer of repentance

“Lord, I ask for forgiveness before all those whom I voluntarily or involuntarily offended in this life and in my past lives. Lord, I forgive everyone who offended me voluntarily or involuntarily in this life or in my past lives. Lord, I ask forgiveness for my dead relatives. Lord, I ask forgiveness for my living relatives. Lord, I ask for forgiveness before the people whom my ancestors offended voluntarily or involuntarily, by word, deed or thought. I ask you, Lord, heal, cleanse and protect me, my family, and fill me with Your Power of the Holy Spirit, love, light, strength, harmony and health. I ask you, Lord, cleanse my family. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen".

Bad karma - the seal of loneliness and how to identify it

"Disabled Love of the 1st Group"

Quite often you can meet single women ( me for example) or men who have both appearance and mind, but they can not find the happiness of personal relationships. This can be caused by several reasons:

Loneliness due to past mistakes in this life or past life :
The impossibility of happiness in love is a punishment for crimes against love. These are betrayal of a loved one, breaking other people's relationships as needed and without, seduction for a momentary passion, murder out of jealousy, marriage out of self-interest, cruelty to those who love you, inattention, consumerist and hypocritical attitude to other people's feelings. ( I'm sorry, it was .)

Loneliness due to mistakes or higher level developments in past lives:

High reasons :
- From a person who gave a monastic vow in a past life. Such oaths are given "for all eternity", that is, not for one human life, but for the length of all earthly incarnations.

A high level of spiritual development, when the spirit has already learned to love in previous incarnations and fully worked out its family karma there, then a more difficult task is set before a person: to learn to love all people.

Ancestral curses : "The Crown of Celibacy", "The Seal of Loneliness", "The Black Widow's Veil", the "Flying Dutchman" syndrome.
For example, a woman (man) from your family, or you yourself, stole (stole) a beloved man (woman) from a rival (rival). A curse will follow in response, as it has been done since ancient times. It would seem - a trifle. But because of him, children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren will be doomed to celibacy or widowhood or divorce or childlessness, or to the extinction of all male children. ( I have suffered from this for 4 generations on the maternal side ).
"Flying Dutchman Syndrome" - an exemplary family man with a stable position in society suddenly leaves his wife, children, work for the sake of dubious connections.

If there is a birth curse in your family, there will definitely be: patients suffering from various mental illnesses, neuroses, inappropriate behavior of relatives, failed personal lives written as if according to one scenario, chronic female diseases, infertility, fornication, alcoholism, early deaths of children and men, hereditary endocrine diseases , other disorders of the hormonal system, complex nature, etc. ( have everything ).

Received through inheritance or gifts :

Lonely people have a negative relationship experience and, dying, they leave it in the form of karma-punishment to one of the descendants not in a straight line. This is one of the few cases when the transmission occurs through some object in memory or as an inheritance from a single relative. And the one who received this object begins to suffer for a long time, living, repeating the life experience of this person, until he corrects the mistake of his life.

As a rule, after correcting the mistake of loneliness, the environment around a person changes dramatically: divorced, widowed, just lonely people become smaller or completely disappear, he more often begins to communicate with married couples, married (married) people ( Ay, there is no one at all, the nearest neighbors are divorced, all relatives are also divorced or widows ).

The abundance of people living around with good marital experience is evidence that marital karma is pure.

At the seal of loneliness , a person simply cannot arrange his personal life. He can change partners indefinitely. He may even have children, but he will not be able to settle down with anyone.

The seal of loneliness can be viewed on ordinary divination cards (not Tarot). As a rule, when dealt with a person, the following cards fall out - 3 ladies and a jack of spades (an empty jack).

You can determine what causes loneliness, because of a curse or a higher stage of development, by palmistry :
--If a person should be single by birth, then there will be no "marriage line" on the left hand

--If a person is cursed with the "crown of celibacy", then these lines will not be on the right hand, but they should be present on the left.

The line of marriage is located on the side of the base of the hill of Mercury above the line of the heart.

Only deep and clear lines speak of marriage, short ones speak of affection.
(I have 3 on the left, and 2 on the right, if I wrinkle a lot, thin and narrow lines that do not even step into the palm of my hand, and under the very hill on the line of the heart there is a large dent, that is, I do not have a marriage line on both hands, again we are at an impasse, maybe both reasons? ).

Other signs indicating celibacy, pugnaciousness, or widowhood :

If the line goes up, then the owner / woman of such a line will not marry / will not marry. ( There are as many as you like, but again, all are very thin, on the left a little larger. )

--If the line of Marriage at the end turns into a fork, then this means separation or divorce.

--If this line is very clear and turns down from the side, then its owner will outlive his half.

It has also been noticed that people most often suffer from loneliness, in whose dates of birth there are numbers 4 (!), 8 ( mother's 8), 11 and 29. This is the so-called risk group - the indicated numbers (especially with the superposition effect - for example, if they coincide in husband and wife, mother and daughter, etc.) initially program men and women for increased susceptibility to loneliness.

Maybe just programming yourself for loneliness:

Type A : An internally restrained person can be full of emotions, plans, experiences, and maybe even
love, but he is afraid to express his feelings and emotions. Fear of being betrayed, rejected, makes a person be in a "shell". As a rule, these women / men experienced sometime a strong disappointment - maybe a strong love for a person who was unavailable due to their marital status or social status. And a person is afraid of a repetition of such a situation.
Type B : A lot of girls dream of a prince ( not without it, but who should girls dream about, about a goblin or something? ). They present their future husband as positive, decent, wealthy. Of course, every girl dreams of such a husband, but the longer she dreams, the more she risks turning from a girl into an insidious moraine, and then into Baba Yaga ( soon I'll go build a hut ).
Type B : The girl's hatred for her stern father left an imprint on her future relationships with men.
Type G : Usually problems arise in girls in whose family there was no love. There was only the appearance of a family, and the girl is unconsciously afraid of a repetition of a similar situation ( There is such).
Type D : The girl lives only with a single mother. Very often, a single mother causes a feeling of guilt, the child is afraid to leave the mother alone, to leave her. And such a mother unconsciously limits the child's living space. She seems to wish well, saying that “Vasya is bad, Vanya is not suitable for you” and as a result her daughter is left alone ( This happened too ).

In the complex interweaving of family relationships, the strongest is the connection between parents and the child, and it becomes the strongest karma that affects a person in this incarnation. People come to a certain family, either by being born into it, or by becoming a member of it after marriage, because their karma dictates so, and they are probably related by blood ties with members of this family in their past lives.

The karma of a child, acquired by him in previous lives, roughly corresponds to the total karma of his parents. Thus, parents do not transfer their karma to the child, but receive just such a child, and the child of such parents, whom they chose by their previous life path.

The genealogical tree of various genera has been depicted graphically more than once. One can distinguish in it the trunk or the main stream and side branches, drying out and not having of great importance for the whole tree. If one of the members of the clan, located in the trunk of the genealogical tree, acquires negative karma, then this can affect the entire clan. At the same time, the influence of the karma of a member of the clan on the descendants is similar to the influence of parents in the family. Thus, within a clan that has negative karma, people are born with karma corresponding to this anomaly.

The article was written by me specifically for the Tarot Chronicles magazine, No. 7, 2015

In the past few years, in Russia and other CIS countries, interest in esotericism and the occult has been constantly growing. There are two reasons for this: the desire to be different from everyone else and the desire to realize the potential inherent inside, which can be called the mission of a person. This potential is a guide whose task is to awaken those in the world of the blind who are looking for their own path. And these people can and should be called esoterics. All the rest can achieve some quite satisfactory success, however, worldly life for them has a higher value than something invisible that they cannot touch with their hands.

The formation of an esoteric is a long process and it is calculated more than one year of life. During this period, many mistakes are made, all of them are carefully analyzed and eventually transformed into what is called experience. Can a person under the age of thirty or thirty-five be considered a true esotericist? Many of you who are familiar with practices younger than the age I have indicated will answer in the affirmative. And they may well be right, but I certainly do not agree with them. A person who has not gone through the basic aspects of the cleansings that are lived on the Arcana Death cannot be considered esoteric due to the lack of life experience, which includes not the basic mistakes of youth, but deep experiences and polishing of the human soul.

True esotericists from childhood are not like everyone else, because they are already in early age bear the seal of the Hermit and the Priest in one vial. They do not know what loneliness is, because this concept is incompatible with spiritual development and growth. For them, loneliness is an inner freedom when you feel good with yourself. And this is solitude, and not loneliness in its purest form, as it might seem at first glance. So, in order to delve a little into the world of the growing esoteric, let's try to get closer to him and look into his eyes.

The Hermit's eyes are surprisingly deep and piercing. They contain the wisdom of dozens or even hundreds of incarnations on our mortal Earth, which is a true hell for the Spirit living here for a hundred lives in order to go to the Divine abode with the essence higher order. Yes Yes. As crazy as it sounds, but it will be so. These children spend most of their free time reading books, sometimes not very correct, from the point of view of adults. The society of peers is alien to them, not because they are not accepted there, but because they are not interested there. It is much more interesting to sit in silence, leafing through old tomes and reading, imagining a world that they have never seen in real life. But… they saw him, they just forgot everything. A “wrong” turn, from the point of view of public opinion and the opinion of parents, occurs precisely when the wrong book falls into the hands. Actually, this happened before, when there was no Internet and social networks. There was no television, and everything esoteric was covered with age-old dust of forbidden secrets. Who knows how many children are influenced by the journal "Science and Life" and works on quantum mechanics, and physics, began to delve into what led them to understand that life is not what we are used to seeing. Life is something else that we have no idea about, because for us it is like the foot of a person who accidentally or deliberately steps on an ant crawling on the ground. This is a very good interpretation of the work of the Wheel of Fortune Arcana. It seems to be non-existent, however, it exists and every turn of it brings us victory or defeat.

And after such a turn, everything changes in the life of this child. He is not yet able to realize this, however, peers are already beginning to feel that he is not like everyone else. And not like everyone else, they scare everyone. They are shunned because they do not understand either their views, or their moods, or the reasons that prompt them to say some words and phrases, the meaning of which is not clear to the majority. That is, to put it quite simply, a child who is destined for the path of esotericism from childhood is smarter and wiser than his peers. And there's nothing to be done about it. He was born this way and he will live this way until the end of his days.

I think the period of adolescence can be easily missed, because there is nothing remarkable there except that the subconscious part of the Hermit very clearly builds the guidelines by which he will live further. Such Hermits have few friends, literally a couple - three, or even one at all. And this is an absolute norm for them, because, in their opinion, there cannot be many true friends. Yes, and they do not converge with anyone, but only with those who are able to feel them at least a little. There are very few such people even in adulthood, to say nothing of teenagers with their youthful maximalism. And now he lives - such a child lives for himself, reads books, learns the world around him and understands that something is wrong in this world. There are those who are able to feel the breath of nature and enjoy sunsets and sunrises; and there are those who live enjoying material things and sunsets - sunrises for him are nothing more than a natural process, without any sacred meaning. However, what is this sacred meaning, our growing Hermit, also can not always coherently explain. Here's a question for you: waking up and falling asleep, have you ever thought that your state of immobility is nothing more than an illusion? After all, while it seems to you that you are motionless, you are rushing at a speed of 254 km / s around the center of our galaxy. Although this information can be questioned. To Caesar is Caesar's, as they say.

Despite all his life ups and downs, the esoteric, being a conductor of the energy of the Hermit, thinks about relationships. A small note. vicissitudes. Everyone has them, but if you carefully analyze the lives of all esotericists significant for the world, you will see that on their life path there are such events that, from the point of view of society, are mistakes / fatal accidents and it is they who make them who these people eventually become. Those who are lucky with a family become quite normal members of it. Those who are less fortunate become her outcasts, by analogy with the saying "There are black sheep in the family." And they are seriously considered underdeveloped, because they do not profess spiritual bonds, which all the rest, however, profess only for the sake of forgiveness from above, and even then only on holidays. And the true esoteric is neither a Catholic, nor a Christian, nor a Buddhist, etc., in their purest form. It is always a kind of symbiosis that carries a part of the Higher Cosmic Mind, of which we are all part. And this life philosophy of theirs makes them the last of the Mohicans, those who are able to see and feel the charm of our home, our mother Earth, who once gave us life, and who one day will take our physical body into her arms.

So, this background is quite enough for each of the readers to draw their own conclusions about how it all begins and draw an analogy with their own lives. If you suddenly realize that you are the very “esoteric” who just wants to be different from everyone else, don’t be scared. There is nothing terrible in this. This is simply the first step that you must go through in this incarnation in order to throw off the chains of society and gain individuality. Just accumulate experience. You will need it. In future. Maybe not in this life, but...

A person who has embarked on the path of spiritual growth will, in most cases, always be lonely. Even if he is in a couple, he will always feel lonely. His head will be filled with different thoughts, and all of them will lead him away from the present, into worlds that do not exist in our understanding. No wonder I mentioned the Hermit so many times in this article. The fact is that the Hermit and the Pope are the key energies through which the esotericists pass. People under their direct influence simply cannot create stable couples, because an ordinary partner is not able to accept their detachment from everyday problems that require daily participation. The main paradox here is that both of these Arcana conduct the energy of the Earth, although their highest hypostasis is the sphere of influence of high cosmic energies. Not without reason, in the chakra layouts, the Pope in the seventh chakra is an indication of a direct connection to the vibrations of cosmic energies or the knowledge of the Divine, which we are not able to fully know. This is a reflection of the fact that a person lives in accordance with the laws of the Universe, and his karma is different from the karma of most people. However, we are a little off topic.

At the very beginning of my story, I focused your attention on two types of esoterics. For ease of understanding, let's call them "pseudo" and "true" esoterics. Dear reader, I ask you not to be offended if the word "pseudo-esoteric" seems rude or inappropriate to you. In fact, there is nothing wrong with it. And if you want to go over to the side of true esotericists, you must understand that there is nothing worse than lying to yourself. Therefore, I leave this topic in this form, because. it is able to turn all the "pseudo" towards the "true".

A true esoteric needs a relationship just like a pseudo. But for the first, these relationships are easier to create and maintain, unlike the second. The thing is that the first needs more worldly goods and another person than the second. The second is fully aware that it is almost impossible to find a couple who will accept him for who he is. Being a true esotericist, he is not very worried about his next, broken relationship. It cannot be said that he does not care at all, because he is still a person, despite the fact that he is an esoteric. And the need to love and be loved is as natural in him as in other people. However, life dictates its own rules, so after grieving a little at the next ashes, he returns to normal.

His energy is so powerful that if he smiles, everyone who comes into contact with him at that moment smiles. If his soul cries, he either goes to his cell, or accidentally sets everyone else on the same wave.

Why are most of those who embark on this path lonely in life? Each of you can come up with your own options. However, the key one is the impossibility of building relationships due to the fact that the esoteric is not able to devote much time to either his family or his loved one. His periods of retreat are much longer than the time he can spend with a partner. And it's not that he does not want to balance love and mission on the scales. He wants. But sooner or later there comes a moment when the other side stops waiting. The partner leaves, and the esoteric often remains alone, continuing to love him. Here, by the way, it is necessary to note one more important feature. Everyone who lives in the esoteric world has a very delicate taste in music, a vivid imagination and loves to read books. But the main thing is not even that. The main thing is that they know how to love unconditionally. Even if the person has hurt you more than once. Even if you know for sure that you will never be together. And this love is not suffering and torment, but happiness and the realization that somewhere on Earth there is a person whose existence helps you to create and explore the space in which you reside with redoubled energy. This is deprived ordinary people. They are too down to earth and, in most cases, love for them is the desire to have someone who will idolize them. The desire not to live life with someone in order to contact at the level of anahata, but simply to be like everyone else. And “like everyone else” is the lot of the crowd, not individualists. Not those who can be classified as “seeing in the world of the blind”, because society is blind. He wants one thing - to subordinate you to his rules. As soon as you obey, you immediately turn into one gray person, quietly walking in a crowd of gray people like you. Only one fact is regrettable here, the "gray" himself will never know that he is gray. Awareness is beyond its capabilities, because it is originally mundane, and the esoteric flies in the sky. He is constantly in flight and his thoughts are far from the place where he resides.

He is an observer who sometimes conducts experiments on himself, letting relationships into his life. This is necessary in order to synthesize new experience and analyze it to identify cause-and-effect relationships of certain phenomena that occur between the energies of yang and yin. Can an observer be permanently in a relationship? Theoretically it can. If next to him is someone who shares his philosophy of life. It divides. Otherwise, the partner will simply tolerate your strange, in his opinion, inclinations and periodically begin to criticize you. Or even worse, set a condition to stop everything. Those who play esoteric will open their chest and quickly hide their esoteric there until better times. And those who live it will dot it all and finish their fairy tale, even if it hurts a lot, but there is no other way out. This is one of the hallmarks of the Hermit. It is always easier for him to leave than to explain something. He does not see the point in explanations, because he knows for sure that his words will be misunderstood and misinterpreted. And the Priest in Sahashara will no longer allow to abandon his principles and his picture of the world. Not because it is the only true one, but because inside the Hermit there is a strong feeling that he is following exactly the path that reveals to him himself and the world in which he lives.

Every time he stays in an open area, the Hermit, like a bird, flies into the sky and revels in the bliss of this freedom and the knowledge that he carries in himself. Does this person need a partner? No. Although, at first glance, it would seem the opposite. But he has his cross. He knows that we come into this world alone and leave the same way. And most of our lives we also live alone, so is it worth it to be afraid that there is no one next to you? It’s not worth it, although while we are on Earth, we are paired creatures and we need a partner. And the esoteric may at times regret that he never managed to create a happy couple. And that's okay. Truly happy couples are formed only by those who have found the very soul with which they have traveled more than one path. And given that esotericists do not accept surrogates, it is easier for them not to tie themselves to anyone by marriage than to tie them to the wrong person.

I deliberately do not mention in this article the gender of the esoteric in question. However, I can say that it is much more difficult for an esoteric woman to find her mate than for a man. This is almost the same as looking for a couple for an ordinary woman, only it has its own nuances. Esoteric men may not enter into long-term relationships quite intentionally, but women ... women are different. Therefore, the phrase of Anna Simonova: “There is no way out of esotericism!” accurately reflects the true state of affairs in this area, and you must be aware. If you suddenly decide to embark on the path of a true esoteric, remember, the price for this is your life. They will take exactly as much from you as they should take. And among these things there will be many people, habits, etc. dearest to you. This is how the law of communicating vessels works. Arrived in one place - departed in another. The law of the eternal cycle of the universe. Therefore, everyone who decides to embark on this path consciously wants to say: do not look for reasons in yourself if the relationship does not stick. Just know that this is your membership fee for the Beyond the Mirror Club. Your vow, according to which you undertake to remain silent and be an ascetic in all areas of life.

Veronika Nikitenko

Chief evangelist of the Alchemy project, Tarot practitioner and researcher, author of a methodology for changing the matrix structures of consciousness, business coach, author of the book on working with the Deviant Moon Tarot deck "In the Power of the Mad Moon"

Loneliness is familiar to everyone, but if some people manage to escape safely from it, then others will get bogged down in it. long years or even for life. Loneliness as a karma is considered in the case when a person for a long period cannot meet his soul mate and know personal happiness. But the karma of loneliness is not a sentence of fate, you can get rid of it forever with the help of an effective technique.

Not all loneliness is considered karmic. In the life of any person there are moments when he feels abandoned and no one needs him. But many people get out of this state after a while, arrange a personal life and enjoy their newfound happiness. In such a situation, there is no need to talk about karma, because temporary loneliness is a completely normal phenomenon that every individual needs to know himself and reassess his own life principles. But sometimes a person tries with all his might to improve his fate, to meet his beloved or beloved, but all his actions turn out to be fruitless. The reasons for failures can be different: from too high demands on a partner to ordinary bad luck in love. Years fly, youth leaves, and in personal life everything is old. Gradually getting used to loneliness, a person refuses to change anything in his destiny and resigns himself to his existence. In such cases, it is worth talking about karmic loneliness.

The concept of "karma" came from ancient Indian religious and philosophical teachings. This word means a causal relationship between the actions committed by a person not only in this life, but also in all his previous incarnations. Being born, an individual already has a whole bunch of karmic tasks that he will have to solve in the future. One of them may be the karma of loneliness, to overcome which he will have to spend a lot of effort and time.

The causes of karmic loneliness, many psychics consider deeds committed by us earlier. For example, if a person in his previous incarnation took a vow of celibacy, then this promise can also apply to his current life. Also, karma can haunt an individual in situations where, after the death of a partner, he could not let new love into his life or stopped trusting people due to betrayal by a loved one.

overcome karmic loneliness It is possible with the help of a special technique that works at the energy level. It allows a lonely person to attract a kindred spirit into his life, who is also looking for him. You need to start working with the technique in a calm atmosphere and good mood. It is very important that no one distracts a person at this moment (the phone must be turned off, the household should be sent for a walk).

How to work with a technique that allows you to overcome the karma of loneliness? To do this, a person needs to form an image of a beloved in his thoughts and visualize him daily. At the same time, there is no need to invent how he looks, what he wears or how much he earns. The imagined image may be blurry, but it is very important to feel a dear little man in it, to feel his presence and warmth near you.

For women, the soul mate should be visualized behind their left shoulder, for men - on the right in front of them. The image must not only be imagined, but also to talk with him, ask him questions. During communication with a soul mate, a lonely person will have a feeling of a certain vibration emanating from the side where he represents the interlocutor. This vibration will generate in his soul a feeling of sublime harmony, which must be remembered and reproduced as often as possible. It is this that will help a person to attract a soul mate, destined for him by fate.

Loneliness as a karma will be overcome if you work with the technique daily. In order for it to attract into life exactly the person that a man or woman needs, in the process of visualization, one should forget about all selfish goals. You need to represent a soul mate, not the wealth, property or car that she owns. It is very important not to tell anyone about it while working with the technique, otherwise the result may be unpredictable.

Overcoming karmic loneliness requires a special approach, since it is often caused by actions committed by a person in the past. To get rid of bad karma, an individual needs to work with it on an energetic level, regularly visualizing the image of his beloved in his thoughts. Only perseverance and faith in a happy future will help him get rid of loneliness and build harmonious relationships with a representative of the opposite sex.

You are already many years old. There are many friends, many meetings and goodbyes, but there is no love, there is no such person whom one would like to keep, without whom life is unthinkable. You divorced your husband, you have two children in your arms, all your efforts are aimed at their well-being, but you are a living person, and you want personal happiness. You understand that the happiness of your children largely depends on whether their mother is happy.

You are no longer young, life has developed, maybe not quite the way you dreamed. I really want tenderness, mutual understanding, a kind, affectionate word, the warmth of a person who is nearby. You have not used up the supply of love, spiritual generosity, care that you want to give and be happy because someone needs you.

Let's try to overcome the karma of loneliness.

Let's try to give our impulse of love, expectation, thirst for happiness into space. Giving, let's think that we are sending it to a soul that is in tune with us, which could gratefully accept our generous energy gift.

If you feel that the desire to overcome loneliness is very strong in you, do the following energy work aimed at attracting the soul, which is also looking for you in space.

1 . Try to imagine the person you would like to see next to you. No need to imagine his face, figure, clothes, you should not think about how many hard cash he has in his pocket, whether he has a car, an apartment or his own store in the city center.

Try feel in the form presented soul mate, try to catch his breath and feel how close it is to you. It must be a vibration, which is in tune with yours so much that their common melody is harmonious and already inseparable into two separate parts.

2 . This breath, this vibration, imagine standing at your side. behind the left shoulder(for women) or located slightly in front of the right shoulder(for a man). Try mentally talking to him (or her). Tell us how you feel and how you would like to see your life in the near future. Imagine that you are being answered.

You will be surprised to find that the answer you present cannot be changed at will. The vibration that you have created has a character that cannot be changed without changing the vibration itself. You can even consult with your friend, each time pleasantly surprised how well he understands you.

3 . Your fictitious energy vibration, your dream, your new friend is already giving you a state of harmony. And now, going to visit, to a disco, to a theater, to a concert, both at home and on the street, feel this harmony in yourself, try not to lose it.

According to the energy law of Correspondence, you will attract a vibration to yourself that will be very, very similar to the one that is your bright dream.

When conducting energy work, you must observe the following rules.

1 . The focus on the presentation process should not be excessive. The energy you work with should be an easy dream, a bright hope, a transparent dream. There should be no tension or heaviness in the head. There should be as much light and quiet joy as possible in thoughts and feelings.

2 . You must certainly free your soul from mercantile and pragmatic tasks. Even if you are tired of living in squalor and poverty, do not imagine a prince with a fat wallet. The wallet can outweigh in your dreams, and then the prince suddenly turns into, for example, a pimp. And you will be surprised to find in it exactly the vibration that you wanted.

If you want to get out of poverty through marriage, don't imagine a lot of money, it always ends badly. Imagine a harmonious soul for you, imagine that together you sound great and the melody of your life is so good that all other favorable factors are simply added to it. Easy and unobtrusive. Attached, but do not become the central theme of your dreams! " Together we will be fine! "That's your feeling.

3 . Try not to invent a new vibration each time depending on your mood, but you can also imagine the same person of your dreams in a different mood. If you are confused in your thoughts and desires, it means that you have not yet understood yourself, have not understood what you need, and then your work is premature, it can only interfere with the natural course of events in your life.

4 . Do not tell anyone that you are doing such energy work. This is a very subtle vibration, if someone knows about it, another vibration (energy) involuntarily turns on, and it is not known what effect it will have on your work.

5 . And finally, there is no need to doubt whether you will succeed or fail to realize what you want. Treat your work as a pleasure, as your little pleasant secret, a pink dream that helps you live. And what will be the result - leave it to the discretion of the Higher Forces.

It is good if you accompany all your work with a prayer to God. Your condition should be quiet and bright, prayer - humble.

Lord, I thank You for everything that is given to me in life (you can list, mentioning both joyful and successful, and sad, referring to troubles as trials). I apparently deserved everything bad, everything good was given to me as a priceless gift.
I thank You, Lord.
How I wish I could meet love in my life. So that he (she) is consonant with me, so that he (could) give happiness to her (him), and he (she) to me. So that there is mutual understanding and respect between us, so that our love brings harmony to this beautiful world.
If only I am worthy (worthy) of such love, I ask you to let me, Lord, meet her (him), because I want to love and give joy to a loved one (because I want to have children and give them joy, etc.).

state of humility before Higher powers, the humility of one's pride (which is a manifestation of dissatisfaction with life) - this is what a person usually needs to acquire before "taking off the crown of celibacy." Neutralizing the various negative energies that are present in your field is a good thing, but it will not bring anything if the inner work is not done. Competent internal work can overcome any negatives. " Seek to find ", - said Jesus, referring to the search for harmony within himself.