You are already many years old. There are many friends, many meetings and goodbyes, but there is no love, there is no such person whom one would like to keep, without whom life is unthinkable. You divorced your husband, you have two children in your arms, all your efforts are aimed at their well-being, but you are a living person, and you want personal happiness. You understand that the happiness of your children largely depends on whether their mother is happy.
You are no longer young, life has developed, maybe not quite the way you dreamed. I really want tenderness, mutual understanding, a kind, affectionate word, the warmth of a person who is nearby. You have not used up the supply of love, spiritual generosity, care that you want to give and be happy because someone needs you.
Let's try to overcome the karma of loneliness.
Let's try to give our impulse of love, expectation, thirst for happiness into space. Giving, let's think that we are sending it to a soul that is in tune with us, which could gratefully accept our generous energy gift.
If you feel that the desire to overcome loneliness is very strong in you, do the following energy work aimed at attracting the soul, which is also looking for you in space.
1 . Try to imagine the person you would like to see next to you. No need to imagine his face, figure, clothes, you should not think about how many hard cash he has in his pocket, whether he has a car, an apartment or his own store in the city center.
Try feel in the presented image soul mate, try to catch his breath and feel how close it is to you. It must be a vibration, which is in tune with yours so much that their common melody is harmonious and already inseparable into two separate parts.
2 . This breath, this vibration, imagine standing at your side. behind the left shoulder(for women) or located slightly in front of the right shoulder(for a man). Try mentally talking to him (or her). Tell us how you feel and how you would like to see your life in the near future. Imagine that you are being answered.
You will be surprised to find that the answer you present cannot be changed at will. The vibration that you have created has a character that cannot be changed without changing the vibration itself. You can even consult with your friend, each time pleasantly surprised how well he understands you.
3 . Your fictitious energy vibration, your dream, your new friend is already giving you a state of harmony. And now, going to visit, to a disco, to a theater, to a concert, both at home and on the street, feel this harmony in yourself, try not to lose it.
According to the energy law of Correspondence, you will attract a vibration to yourself that will be very, very similar to the one that is your bright dream.
When conducting energy work, you must observe the following rules.
1 . The focus on the presentation process should not be excessive. The energy you work with should be an easy dream, a bright hope, a transparent dream. There should be no tension or heaviness in the head. There should be as much light and quiet joy as possible in thoughts and feelings.
2 . You must certainly free your soul from mercantile and pragmatic tasks. Even if you are tired of living in squalor and poverty, do not imagine a prince with a fat wallet. The wallet can outweigh in your dreams, and then the prince suddenly turns into, for example, a pimp. And you will be surprised to find in it exactly the vibration that you wanted.
If you want to get out of poverty through marriage, don't imagine a lot of money, it always ends badly. Imagine a harmonious soul for you, imagine that together you sound great and the melody of your life is so good that all other favorable factors are simply added to it. Easy and unobtrusive. Attached, but do not become the central theme of your dreams! " Together we will be fine! "That's your feeling.
3 . Try not to invent a new vibration each time depending on your mood, but you can also imagine the same person of your dreams in a different mood. If you are confused in your thoughts and desires, it means that you have not yet understood yourself, have not understood what you need, and then your work is premature, it can only interfere with the natural course of events in your life.
4 . Do not tell anyone that you are doing such energy work. This is a very subtle vibration, if someone knows about it, another vibration (energy) involuntarily turns on, and it is not known what effect it will have on your work.
5 . And finally, there is no need to doubt whether you will succeed or fail to realize what you want. Treat your work as a pleasure, as your little pleasant secret, a pink dream that helps you live. And what will be the result - leave it to the discretion of the Higher Forces.
It is good if you accompany all your work with a prayer to God. Your condition should be quiet and bright, prayer - humble.
- Lord, I thank You for everything that is given to me in life (you can list, mentioning both joyful and successful, and sad, referring to troubles as trials). I apparently deserved everything bad, everything good was given to me as a priceless gift.
- I thank You, Lord.
- How I wish I could meet love in my life. So that he (she) is consonant with me, so that he (could) give happiness to her (him), and he (she) to me. So that there is mutual understanding and respect between us, so that our love brings harmony to this beautiful world.
- If only I am worthy (worthy) of such love, I ask you to let me, Lord, meet her (him), because I want to love and give joy to a loved one (because I want to have children and give them joy, etc.).
The state of humility before the Higher powers, the humility of one's pride (which is a manifestation of dissatisfaction with life) - this is what a person usually needs to acquire before "taking off the crown of celibacy." Neutralizing the various negative energies that are present in your field is a good thing, but it will not bring anything if the inner work is not done. Competent internal work can overcome any negatives. " Seek to find ", - said Jesus, referring to the search for harmony within himself.
The article was written by me specifically for the Tarot Chronicles magazine, No. 7, 2015
In the past few years, in Russia and other CIS countries, interest in esotericism and the occult has been constantly growing. There are two reasons for this: the desire to be different from everyone else and the desire to realize the potential inherent inside, which can be called the mission of a person. This potential is a guide whose task is to awaken those in the world of the blind who are looking for their own path. And these people can and should be called esoterics. All the rest can achieve some quite satisfactory success, however, worldly life for them has a higher value than something invisible that they cannot touch with their hands.
The formation of an esoteric is a long process and it is calculated more than one year of life. During this period, many mistakes are made, all of them are carefully analyzed and eventually transformed into what is called experience. Can a person under the age of thirty or thirty-five be considered a true esotericist? Many of you who are familiar with practices younger than the age I have indicated will answer in the affirmative. And they may well be right, but I certainly do not agree with them. A person who has not gone through the basic aspects of the cleansings that are lived on the Arcana Death cannot be considered esoteric due to the lack of life experience, which includes not the basic mistakes of youth, but deep experiences and polishing of the human soul.
True esotericists from childhood are not like everyone else, because they are already in early age bear the seal of the Hermit and the Priest in one vial. They do not know what loneliness is, because this concept is incompatible with spiritual development and growth. For them, loneliness is an inner freedom when you feel good with yourself. And this is solitude, and not loneliness in its purest form, as it might seem at first glance. So, in order to delve a little into the world of the growing esoteric, let's try to get closer to him and look into his eyes.
The Hermit's eyes are surprisingly deep and piercing. They contain the wisdom of dozens or even hundreds of incarnations on our mortal Earth, which is a true hell for the Spirit living here for a hundred lives in order to go to the Divine abode with the essence higher order. Yes Yes. As crazy as it sounds, but it will be so. These children spend most of their free time reading books, sometimes not very correct, from the point of view of adults. The society of peers is alien to them, not because they are not accepted there, but because they are not interested there. It is much more interesting to sit in silence, leafing through old tomes and reading, imagining a world that they have never seen in real life. But… they saw him, they just forgot everything. A “wrong” turn, from the point of view of public opinion and the opinion of parents, occurs precisely when the wrong book falls into the hands. Actually, this happened before, when there was no Internet and social networks. There was no television, and everything esoteric was covered with age-old dust of forbidden secrets. Who knows how many children are influenced by the journal "Science and Life" and works on quantum mechanics, and physics, began to delve into what led them to understand that life is not what we are used to seeing. Life is something else that we have no idea about, because for us it is like the foot of a person who accidentally or deliberately steps on an ant crawling on the ground. This is a very good interpretation of the work of the Wheel of Fortune Arcana. It seems to be non-existent, however, it exists and every turn of it brings us victory or defeat.
And after such a turn, everything changes in the life of this child. He is not yet able to realize this, however, peers are already beginning to feel that he is not like everyone else. And not like everyone else, they scare everyone. They are shunned because they do not understand either their views, or their moods, or the reasons that prompt them to say some words and phrases, the meaning of which is not clear to the majority. That is, to put it quite simply, a child who is destined for the path of esotericism from childhood is smarter and wiser than his peers. And there's nothing to be done about it. He was born this way and he will live this way until the end of his days.
I think the period of adolescence can be easily missed, because there is nothing remarkable there except that the subconscious part of the Hermit very clearly builds the guidelines by which he will live further. Such Hermits have few friends, literally a couple - three, or even one at all. And this is an absolute norm for them, because, in their opinion, there cannot be many true friends. Yes, and they do not converge with anyone, but only with those who are able to feel them at least a little. There are very few such people even in adulthood, to say nothing of teenagers with their youthful maximalism. And now he lives - such a child lives for himself, reads books, learns the world around him and understands that something is wrong in this world. There are those who are able to feel the breath of nature and enjoy sunsets and sunrises; and there are those who live enjoying material things and sunsets - sunrises for him are nothing more than a natural process, without any sacred meaning. However, what is this sacred meaning, our growing Hermit, also can not always coherently explain. Here's a question for you: waking up and falling asleep, have you ever thought that your state of immobility is nothing more than an illusion? After all, while it seems to you that you are motionless, you are rushing at a speed of 254 km / s around the center of our galaxy. Although this information can be questioned. To Caesar is Caesar's, as they say.
Despite all his life ups and downs, the esoteric, being a conductor of the energy of the Hermit, thinks about relationships. A small note. vicissitudes. Everyone has them, but if you carefully analyze the lives of all esotericists significant for the world, you will see that on their life path there are such events that, from the point of view of society, are mistakes / fatal accidents and it is they who make them who these people eventually become. Those who are lucky with a family become quite normal members of it. Those who are less fortunate become her outcasts, by analogy with the saying "There are black sheep in the family." And they are seriously considered underdeveloped, because they do not profess spiritual bonds, which all the rest, however, profess only for the sake of forgiveness from above, and even then only on holidays. And the true esoteric is neither a Catholic, nor a Christian, nor a Buddhist, etc., in their purest form. It is always a kind of symbiosis that carries a part of the Higher Cosmic Mind, of which we are all part. And this life philosophy of theirs makes them the last of the Mohicans, those who are able to see and feel the charm of our home, our mother Earth, who once gave us life, and who one day will take our physical body into her arms.
So, this background is quite enough for each of the readers to draw their own conclusions about how it all begins and draw an analogy with their own lives. If you suddenly realize that you are the very “esoteric” who just wants to be different from everyone else, don’t be scared. There is nothing terrible in this. This is simply the first step that you must go through in this incarnation in order to throw off the chains of society and gain individuality. Just accumulate experience. You will need it. In future. Maybe not in this life, but...
A person who has embarked on the path of spiritual growth will, in most cases, always be alone. Even if he is in a couple, he will always feel lonely. His head will be filled with different thoughts, and all of them will lead him away from the present, into worlds that do not exist in our understanding. No wonder I mentioned the Hermit so many times in this article. The fact is that the Hermit and the Pope are the key energies through which the esotericists pass. People under their direct influence simply cannot create stable couples, because an ordinary partner is not able to accept their detachment from everyday problems that require daily participation. The main paradox here is that both of these Arcana conduct the energy of the Earth, although their highest hypostasis is the sphere of influence of high cosmic energies. Not without reason, in the chakra layouts, the Pope in the seventh chakra is an indication of a direct connection to the vibrations of cosmic energies or the knowledge of the Divine, which we are not able to fully know. This is a reflection of the fact that a person lives in accordance with the laws of the Universe, and his karma is different from the karma of most people. However, we are a little off topic.
At the very beginning of my story, I focused your attention on two types of esoterics. For ease of understanding, let's call them "pseudo" and "true" esoterics. Dear reader, I ask you not to be offended if the word "pseudo-esoteric" seems rude or inappropriate to you. In fact, there is nothing wrong with it. And if you want to go over to the side of true esotericists, you must understand that there is nothing worse than lying to yourself. Therefore, I leave this topic in this form, because. it is able to turn all the "pseudo" towards the "true".
A true esoteric needs a relationship just like a pseudo. But for the first, these relationships are easier to create and maintain, unlike the second. The thing is that the first needs more worldly goods and another person than the second. The second is fully aware that it is almost impossible to find a couple who will accept him for who he is. Being a true esotericist, he is not very worried about his next, broken relationship. It cannot be said that he does not care at all, because he is still a person, despite the fact that he is an esoteric. And the need to love and be loved is as natural in him as in other people. However, life dictates its own rules, so after grieving a little at the next ashes, he returns to normal.
His energy is so powerful that if he smiles, everyone who comes into contact with him at that moment smiles. If his soul cries, he either goes to his cell, or accidentally sets everyone else on the same wave.
Why are most of those who embark on this path lonely in life? Each of you can come up with your own options. However, the key one is the impossibility of building relationships due to the fact that the esoteric is not able to devote much time to either his family or his loved one. His periods of retreat are much longer than the time he can spend with a partner. And it's not that he does not want to balance love and mission on the scales. He wants. But sooner or later there comes a moment when the other side stops waiting. The partner leaves, and the esoteric often remains alone, continuing to love him. Here, by the way, it is necessary to note one more important feature. Everyone who lives in the esoteric world has a very delicate taste in music, a vivid imagination and loves to read books. But the main thing is not even that. The main thing is that they know how to love unconditionally. Even if the person has hurt you more than once. Even if you know for sure that you will never be together. And this love is not suffering and torment, but happiness and the realization that somewhere on Earth there is a person whose existence helps you to create and explore the space in which you reside with redoubled energy. This is deprived ordinary people. They are too down to earth and, in most cases, love for them is the desire to have someone who will idolize them. The desire not to live life with someone in order to contact at the level of anahata, but simply to be like everyone else. And “like everyone else” is the lot of the crowd, not individualists. Not those who can be classified as “seeing in the world of the blind”, because society is blind. He wants one thing - to subordinate you to his rules. As soon as you obey, you immediately turn into one gray person, quietly walking in a crowd of gray people like you. Only one fact is regrettable here, the "gray" himself will never know that he is gray. Awareness is beyond its capabilities, because it is originally mundane, and the esoteric flies in the sky. He is constantly in flight and his thoughts are far from the place where he resides.
He is an observer who sometimes conducts experiments on himself, letting relationships into his life. This is necessary in order to synthesize new experience and analyze it to identify cause-and-effect relationships of certain phenomena that occur between the energies of yang and yin. Can an observer be permanently in a relationship? Theoretically it can. If next to him is someone who shares his philosophy of life. It divides. Otherwise, the partner will simply tolerate your strange, in his opinion, inclinations and periodically begin to criticize you. Or even worse, set a condition to stop everything. Those who play esoteric will open their chest and quickly hide their esoteric there until better times. And those who live it will dot it all and finish their fairy tale, even if it hurts a lot, but there is no other way out. This is one of the hallmarks of the Hermit. It is always easier for him to leave than to explain something. He does not see the point in explanations, because he knows for sure that his words will be misunderstood and misinterpreted. And the Priest in Sahashara will no longer allow to abandon his principles and his picture of the world. Not because it is the only true one, but because inside the Hermit there is a strong feeling that he is following exactly the path that reveals to him himself and the world in which he lives.
Every time he stays in an open area, the Hermit, like a bird, flies into the sky and revels in the bliss of this freedom and the knowledge that he carries in himself. Does this person need a partner? No. Although, at first glance, it would seem the opposite. But he has his cross. He knows that we come into this world alone and leave the same way. And most of our lives we also live alone, so is it worth it to be afraid that there is no one next to you? It’s not worth it, although while we are on Earth, we are paired creatures and we need a partner. And the esoteric may at times regret that he never managed to create a happy couple. And that's okay. Truly happy couples are formed only by those who have found the very soul with which they have traveled more than one path. And given that esotericists do not accept surrogates, it is easier for them not to tie themselves to anyone by marriage than to tie them to the wrong person.
I deliberately do not mention in this article the gender of the esoteric in question. However, I can say that it is much more difficult for an esoteric woman to find her mate than for a man. This is almost the same as looking for a couple for an ordinary woman, only it has its own nuances. Esoteric men may not enter into long-term relationships quite intentionally, but women ... women are different. Therefore, the phrase of Anna Simonova: “There is no way out of esotericism!” accurately reflects the true state of affairs in this area, and you must be aware. If you suddenly decide to embark on the path of a true esoteric, remember, the price for this is your life. They will take exactly as much from you as they should take. And among these things there will be many people, habits, etc. dearest to you. This is how the law of communicating vessels works. Arrived in one place - departed in another. The law of the eternal cycle of the Universe. Therefore, everyone who decides to embark on this path consciously wants to say: do not look for reasons in yourself if the relationship does not stick. Just know that this is your membership fee for the Beyond the Mirror Club. Your vow, according to which you undertake to remain silent and be an ascetic in all areas of life.
Veronika Nikitenko
Chief evangelist of the Alchemy project, Tarot practitioner and researcher, author of a methodology for changing the matrix structures of consciousness, business coach, author of the book on working with the Deviant Moon Tarot deck "In the Power of the Mad Moon"
The main reason for female loneliness is that many women began to forget their true purpose, which initially consists in creating a family and the birth of a child.
The true purpose of a woman is the birth of a child.
Now our modern girls have radically shifted their goals and emphasis in life, they have become more courageous and strong. For them, a career and the achievement of material prosperity come first. But to attract a man into your life and create a family, you need time and effort, which a woman no longer has left.
It is still worth reconsidering your lifestyle, changing your behavior, the manner of communicating with people, doing work on yourself, and engaging in women's practices as well.
How to live in feminine energies and how easily achieve your goals with the help of feminine vibrations, not every woman knows about this now. But I assure you, it is worth learning.
let's consider the main causes of female loneliness according to psychics, those. those people who have special abilities to see and feel energies on more subtle planes.
- Crown of celibacy.
Is there a crown of celibacy, and what is it?
The crown of celibacy really exists. Usually this means the impossibility of a woman to build any relationship with the opposite sex due to certain negative influences specifically for a woman or for her kind. This may be deliberate damage, a curse for some misconduct. The unintentional evil eye can also act in this way, if someone is very jealous of your relationship with some young man, and since then nothing has worked out with anyone.
- On someone else's misfortune happiness can not be built.
There is an opinion that if you start a relationship with a married man or break up a family, then the Universe will take revenge, and such a woman will be unhappy in her personal life.
A relationship with a married man is always a sin, and sooner or later retribution comes for any sin. No wonder they say that happiness cannot be built on someone else's misfortune. You do not just enter into a relationship with a married person, you take him away from the family. And even if you do not plan to marry him, relations in his family still deteriorate.
Because the time and attention that he pays to you, he steals from his family: he does not help his wife, does not go shopping with her, she bears all the burden of life on her shoulders, starting to hate him, he does not communicate with children, does not play with them, does not educate. In the future, all this will have its consequences. And everything you have done will be returned to you, sometimes with interest. Many people don't believe this because returns don't always happen quickly. More often there is a long pause between actions and consequences. Sometimes your kids pay the price.
Therefore, my advice to you: start relationships and create families with free men, among whom there will definitely be the one who will make you happy!
- Love spell.
If a woman bewitched a guy who became her husband, then such a marriage is unlikely to be happy and will only bring you disappointment in the future, because you will not be forced to be nice. A a love spell is a forced binding of a person to oneself through various magical activities. Never confuse spell with love. Love is given from above, and it cannot be imposed in any way. A love spell suppresses the will of a person and instills in him false feelings that have nothing to do with love. It is like a disease that you yourself have provoked.
And, if it is not treated, there are two options depending on the person’s immunity: either he heals himself and at one fine moment realizes that he does not love you, and never loved, and goes in search of his happiness. Either the disease is aggravated and overgrown with complications: depression, unwillingness to live, addiction to alcohol, etc. It is unlikely that such a character as a husband will resemble the man of your dreams. Plus, you should always remember that there is another injured party - the one from whom you stole him, with whom he could be happy.
Many ladies, in the case of a strong immunity of their husband, who at one fine moment realized that there were no feelings and never had, try to keep him near them at all costs, making new love spells. As a result of constant attacks, his so-called immunity will weaken, and you will get an incomprehensible creature that destroys his and your life. So do not forcibly bind to yourself, as you think, your soul mate. If his destiny is to be with you, he will be without any magical intervention and will not go anywhere from you. And if not, you will simply break his life and still you will not be happy. And even if you have sinned once by tying him to yourself, well, the demon has beguiled, do not aggravate the situation. If a person wants to leave, let him go, let him go his own way, find his happiness and give it to the one for whom it is intended.
- Negative programming.
For example, can fortune-telling lead to the fact that subsequently the desired man will not appear?
Fortune telling is just one of the auxiliary tools for obtaining information, but your belief in the predicted can trigger an unwanted program, and you will go in the wrong direction just because you are tuned in to it.
The future has key points that cannot be changed, these are tests that God gives us for our own improvement, but basically our tomorrow depends on ourselves, our actions and thoughts today and always has many options for development.
- Fright.
Fright - uh then a strong short-term energy and mental shake-up. Called the so-called "shock" effect. By analogy with how an electrical system, which is designed to operate on the same current and voltage parameters, receives a blow - an overload in the form of a much higher voltage, so when frightened, and the psyche, nerve centers The central nervous system and energy centers get hit.
Weak children's psyche fear is much more difficult to bear. Therefore, the fear received in childhood, can have an impact on the life of an adult. Since in case of fright, a mental block is formed according to the principle conditioned reflex(the dog no longer barks, but the child is still afraid of it), as well as an energy block that fuels fear and tension in a person.
Such blocks are most often formed in Anahata - the heart center, which is responsible for the balance of emotions, and in Muladhara - in the root center, where the energy of fear can "sit down".
Thus, when the heart center is blocked, it is difficult to show feelings, show and accept love. And with a block in the muladhara chakra, a person for no particular reason may experience a feeling of instability, anxiety, mainly in relation to the future, there are causeless fears, longing, depression, fatigue, irritability, weakness, there is a "lack of strength".
- Evil eye, damage, negativity.
This is an energy blow to the human energy body. Often unconscious, "non-special".
The basis for the evil eye are emotions of a "peak" scale - strong aggression, envy, jealousy, hatred. Yes, and from the "praising" and admiration, you can also get the evil eye.
The evil eye of mild and moderate severity can be compared with food poisoning, which can go away on its own if you just “leak over”. But it can pass faster if you clean yourself from the negative received. A severe evil eye can "get stuck" in a person's energy, like a splinter, which will "fester" for a long time and bring discomfort and a heavy evil eye without cleaning, or it will go away for a very long time, or it will get stuck.
Severe damage can "grow" into a generic negative.
- Karma. What is karmic loneliness?
At birth, we receive certain karmic tasks, and some even karmic blocks that need to be overcome in this life.
Based on the laws of karma, we do not come into this world by accident., but in order to fulfill their mission, which is to be carried out by each individual person. Even if we do not intend to make contact with the people around us, anyway, sooner or later fate will push us with such a person with whom we need to go through processing. Every person we encounter today appears in our lives in order to correct past karmic mistakes.
The karma of loneliness is given to a person so that the person plunges into deeper self-knowledge and analysis of those situations that past life and in past incarnations were done incorrectly.
As a rule, if a person is rejected here and now and does not have a successful stable personal relationship, this means that he needs to look for other ways to establish relationships with people around him. And only through self-development can one change one's destiny and correct one's karma, and then loneliness will turn into another form, which will give a person a prosperous partner and comfortable relationships.
Reasons for karmic loneliness
Now we will look at some of the reasons that lead to karmic loneliness.
Perhaps in a past incarnation you created an idol for yourself and ended up with nothing.
Or, on the contrary, you could become an object of admiration, who rudely rejected attempts to establish normal relations with him.
You may have set the bar too high for the social status of your fans, and by doing so, cut off the slightest possibility of contact with people of a lower social status.
Some in the past experience were in constant search for true love, never finding their ideal.
Others did not know how to love at all, while for someone the only subject for love and adoration was himself.
Someone in a past life, in the name of serving ideals, withdrew from worldly affairs and dedicated himself to God.
Someone was afraid of responsibility for another person and could not become a support for a loved one.
Someone did not find the strength to search for a new half after the death of a partner, feeling affection for a dead love.
Someone left children for whom a person sacrificed his personal life.
All these people have common components - this is the karma of loneliness, which is a further path in subsequent incarnations. As a result of this, a person cannot meet a couple and remains alone, for knowledge and introspection, until full awareness of what is happening is achieved.
- Family curse.
Damn is a hard thing. But, fortunately, rare. The heavier the negative, the less common it is.
What is a curse? If we draw parallels with the "normal" world, then the curse can be compared with a genetic disease that gives a "failure" at the level of genetics, and you can't do anything about it, live as you can, live as you can.
And the curse also "fails". But at the level of fate. Investing in the fate of a person those distortions or violations that a priori should not be there. Another person intervened in the fate of a person, which God "prescribed" to him, and broke, distorted it.
The curse falls not only on one person, but on his descendants too. This is the case when children are responsible for their fathers. More precisely, they are not responsible for them, but suffer along with them. Why? The fate of a person, well, whatever one may say, in one percentage or another, is still connected with the parental fate ... at least at the point that a person was born precisely to these dads and moms, which gives him the starting point for moving through life.
As genetics is transmitted, as the accumulated positive-negative karma is transmitted, so is the "failure" in the form of a curse. In the same form, in a strengthened or weakened version - this is a separate conversation.
The curse is when several generations are "stuck" on approximately the same problems.
As examples - all men drink too much; all generations are in poverty, although they fight, they try; all women sooner or later become widows; in the family, the percentage of cancer, or schizophrenia, or birth pathologies is above the average level; all men die after reaching a certain age; marriage takes place with great, great difficulty, and all in marriage as one "howl with happiness" ... And other "déjà vu".
Ancestral Curse it is often caused by the fact that one of the ancestors committed a series of very serious offenses. For this, he was cursed by people directly affected by these actions through magical rites or the power of their own hatred. Ancestral curse passes from generation to generation, for many generations. In one case, the curse is worked out by all representatives of this genus, in others, the curse is transmitted either through the male or female line.
In many cases, the curse of the family does not allow a person to realize himself in life: to make a brilliant career or open his own business. Does not allow to get married (marry); does not allow to conceive or have a child; makes you abuse alcohol; leads to health problems that are inexplicable from the point of view of conventional medicine; invariably turns away successful events in life, attracts troubles and misfortunes.
If there is a birth curse in your family, then the most inexplicable things can happen in life. A series of similar events occur, repeated in the same family from generation to generation. Usually these are diseases, early violent death, suicidal tendencies, conflicts between close relatives, early death. generational curse is the result of executing a specific program. This program is designed to block the energy channels responsible for successfully attracting men and interacting with the opposite sex.
If personal life does not add up in any way, I advise you first of all to reconsider your views on life, the manner of communicating with others, your ideas about your future partner. Perhaps your requests and ideals are too high. Indeed, often we ourselves build barriers for ourselves and by our actions we postpone that long-awaited meeting! Yes, magic or energy practices with the help of an experienced master can help open roads or remove induced negativity, if any. But still I recommend starting with yourself, your thoughts and actions.
And, in conclusion, do not be afraid and try on the entire list of negative programs.
Perhaps in the near future you will meet with your prince and a long happy life in joy.
You are no longer young, life has developed, maybe not quite the way you dreamed. I really want tenderness, mutual understanding, a kind, affectionate word, the warmth of a person who is nearby. You have not used up the supply of love, spiritual generosity, care that you want to give and be happy because someone needs you. Let's try to overcome the karma of loneliness.
Karma of loneliness: how to get rid of
Let's try to give our impulse of love, expectation, thirst for happiness into space. Giving, let's think that we are sending it to a soul that is in tune with us, which could gratefully accept our generous energy gift.
If you feel that the desire to overcome loneliness is very strong in you, do the following energy work aimed at attracting the soul, which is also looking for you in space.
1. Try to imagine the person you would like to see next to you. No need to imagine his face, figure, clothes, you should not think about how many hard cash he has in his pocket, whether he has a car, an apartment or his own store in the city center.
Try to feel your soul mate in the presented image, try to catch his breath and feel how close it is to you. It should be a feeling of vibration that is in tune with yours so much that their overall melody is harmonious and already inseparable into two separate parts.
2. Imagine this breath, this vibration standing behind your left shoulder (for women) or slightly in front of your right shoulder (for a man). Try mentally talking to him (or her). Tell us how you feel and how you would like to see your life in the near future. Imagine that you are being answered.
You will be surprised to find that the answer you present cannot be changed at will. The vibration that you have created has a character that cannot be changed without changing the vibration itself. You can even consult with your friend, each time pleasantly surprised how well he understands you.
3. Your fictional energy vibration, your dream, your new friend is already giving you a state of harmony. And now, going to visit, to a disco, to a theater, to a concert, both at home and on the street, feel this harmony in yourself, try not to lose it.
According to the energy law of Correspondence, you will attract a vibration to yourself that will be very, very similar to the one that is your bright dream.
Rules for overcoming the Karma of loneliness
When conducting energy work, you must observe the following rules.
1. The focus on the submission process should not be excessive. The energy you work with should be an easy dream, a bright hope, a transparent dream. There should be no tension or heaviness in the head. There should be as much light and quiet joy as possible in thoughts and feelings.
2. You must certainly free your soul from mercantile and pragmatic tasks. Even if you are tired of living in squalor and poverty, do not imagine a prince with a fat wallet. The wallet can outweigh in your dreams, and then the prince suddenly turns into, for example, a pimp. And you will be surprised to find in it exactly the vibration that you wanted.
If you want to get out of poverty through marriage, don't imagine a lot of money, it always ends badly. Imagine a harmonious soul for you, imagine that together you sound great and the melody of your life is so good that all other favorable factors are simply added to it. Easy and unobtrusive. Attached, but do not become the central theme of your dreams! "Together we'll be fine!" - that's your feeling.
If you want a guy with a car, then figure out what you still want more: love or a car. If love, then let the car fade into the background, and if the car, then why is the guy, maybe it's better to go to driving courses.
3. Try not to invent a new vibration each time depending on your mood, but you can also imagine the same person of your dreams in a different mood. If you are confused in your thoughts and desires, it means that you have not yet understood yourself, have not understood what you need, and then your work is premature, it can only interfere with the natural course of events in your life.
4. Do not tell anyone that you are doing such energy work. This is a very subtle vibration, if someone knows about it, another vibration (energy) involuntarily turns on, and it is not known what effect it will have on your work.
5. And finally, there is no need to doubt whether you will succeed or fail to realize what you want. Treat your work as a pleasure, as your little pleasant secret, a pink dream that helps you live. And what will be the result - leave it to the discretion of the Higher Forces.
It is good if you accompany all your work with a prayer to God. Your condition should be quiet and bright, prayer - humble.
Prayer from the Karma of Loneliness
"Lord, I thank You for everything that is given to me in life (you can list, mentioning both joyful and successful, and sad, referring to troubles as trials). Apparently, I deserved everything bad, everything good was given to me as a priceless gift .I thank You, Lord.
How I wish I could meet love in my life. So that he (she) is consonant with me, so that he (could) give happiness to her (him), and he (she) to me. So that there is mutual understanding and respect between us, so that our love brings harmony to this beautiful world.
If only I am worthy (worthy) of such love, I ask you to let me, Lord, meet her (him), because I want to love and give joy to a loved one (because I want to have children and give them joy, etc.) ".
The state of humility before the Higher powers, the humility of one's pride (which is a manifestation of dissatisfaction with life) - this is what a person usually needs to acquire before "taking off the crown of celibacy." Neutralizing the various negative energies that are present in your field is a good thing, but it will not bring anything if the inner work is not done. Competent internal work can overcome any negatives. "Seek and you will find," Jesus said, referring to the search for harmony within himself.
There is a lot of talk these days about karma and reincarnation. This article does not claim to be the ultimate truth, because none of us knows if reincarnation exists in reality, without which the very concept of karma does not make sense. Therefore, I will further assume that the human soul lives in the physical body for several cycles, that is, “lives”, each time forgetting about what happened to it before. Based on this, I will try to explain the causes of female bad luck, loneliness and illness from the point of view of karma.
So, why do many single women complain about their health? We begin to notice the disease only when it already has a physical or biochemical manifestation, however, any physical suffering indicates some kind of spiritual deficiency in our life. For single women, this disadvantage is the absence of a family, the impossibility of their self-realization as a wife and mother.
Three main reasons for all failures
If we suffer spiritually and get sick physically, this is not always due to genetics alone, environment, nutrition, infections, misbehavior of other people or other external factors. There are three main causes of disease: our mind, karmic retribution and ignorance - the "spiritual root" of most problems and diseases.
Wrong thinking is number one among the main causes of all women's troubles. The way we perceive the world, what we think about it, the words we speak - all this affects our well-being and success in life. Everything that we have created with our words and thoughts and “released” into the world is then reflected and returned to us.
Karmic retribution is the second leading cause of loneliness. Karma means "action" in Sanskrit. According to the Buddha, the circumstances of birth, both happy and unhappy, are the direct result of a past life. Every good and bad word, thought or action creates an imprint, which at some point will be reflected back into a person's positive or negative karma.
The karma of actions affects us more than the consequences of the karma of thought. In addition, the intention, or mental attitude to what is happening largely determines the severity of karma. For example, your action when you help someone out of compassion, rather than out of duty, is more pure. In the same way, a deliberate harmful action will bring more significant karmic results than one that was impulsive. Thus, the purer a person's motivation - positive or negative, the stronger the manifestation of karma.
Retribution for some serious misdeeds of one person can be repeated in the generations of the family, this is what doctors call bad "heredity" or "genetics", esotericists - birth damage, "crown of celibacy", etc., and I will call negative generic programs.
Ignorance is the third main cause of all women's misfortunes. It has nothing to do with a bunch of your diplomas, because they don’t teach it in our universities. Ignorance may consist in not understanding that we, as human beings, have a special power over what is happening at the moment when certain words come out of our mouths. Therefore, it is very important to observe the purity of not only the body, but also speech, avoid profanity or decadent thoughts: I will not succeed, no one needs me, I am ugly, no one loves me, etc.
There is ignorance associated with a lack of knowledge about the world and about your body in particular. Polluting the body with unhealthy food, leading a sedentary lifestyle, or exposing ourselves to substances unnatural for a living organism, sometimes without even knowing it, we grow the roots of our illness and loneliness.
Why do destructive generic programs arise?
Firstly, because of any “terrible” events in the family: murders, suicides, poverty, hunger, illness, participation in wars, etc. Often a relative who "dishonored" the family is expelled from the family clan and "forgotten". After death, such “lost” souls feed on the energy of living family members, which enhances the negative.
Secondly, due to various deviations associated with childbearing and sex. These are abortions, abandonment of children, fornication, sexual perversions, betrayals, violence, divorces.
Thirdly, from the disrespect shown to the "shrines" of the family, such as marital and brotherly love, caring for children, respect for elders, family traditions…
Fourth, the origin of karmic negativity may stem from a curse or some form of willful disobedience. Higher Powers. In fact, what we call a "curse" is simply a natural consequence of an act of disobedience, that negative human action that once upset the existing balance in the world and was not corrected.
Creation principles generic programs
Our ancestors with their lives even after death influence us and our descendants. If we are energetic, healthy, successful, prosperous, have a strong family and smart, healthy children, then our ancestors tried and increased the positive energy of the family. If we are haunted by illness, poverty, failure, loneliness, then the generic program is destructive and can even lead to the extinction of the family. The signs of such a program, in addition to hereditary mental, oncological and endocrine diseases in the family, are loneliness, infertility, early deaths of family members, divorces, impossibility of self-realization, lack of energy, depression, suicides, murders, crimes, sexual perversions, repetitive situations in different generations: the death or departure of men, problems with children and the elderly, the birth of children out of wedlock, etc. The reason for all of the above can be not only the negative karma of the family, but also the karma of an individual. Most of the time they go side by side.
Generic programs have their own principles. For example, the whole burden of the family's karma falls on the first child in the family - he bears the main burden, thereby atoning for the negative of the family. But it also happens the other way around: the first-born is born more successful and viable, and the positive energy of the family is no longer enough for the next children.
Generic programs are passed down through the generation, so grandchildren often repeat the fate of grandparents (the first granddaughter looks like her mother’s mother, and the first grandson looks like her father’s grandfather, but the following children have more freedom of life choice), and the saying is true that children Genius nature is resting.
If an ancestor lived a difficult life or was ill, you cannot call him by the name of his descendants - so they can repeat his fate.
Social upheavals also affect the karma of each clan living in a certain territory, which, in turn, “merges” into the egregor or karma of a nation or state.
Therefore, it is wrong to simply consider the problem of loneliness as a karmic problem of an individual woman. Behind every single woman are generations of her ancestors, not just her own past lives. In addition, we probably do not know whether reincarnation exists, but no one will deny that the energy and characteristics of the life of ancestors affect our lives, being inherited.
Generic and karmic programs are not something that cannot be changed. No, they can be recognized, worked out and corrected. Now there are many different ways for this, often at the intersection of esotericism and psychology, such as, for example, the Hellinger constellation.
I understand that such a topic as the karma of a family or an individual, and its influence on female loneliness, has almost never been raised by me, although many of my students and clients often ask me questions about karma and my attitude to this theory. Therefore, I would like to continue this article by talking about 10 signs of the influence of a negative generic or karmic program on a woman. If you are interested, let me know in the comments here, in a reply letter or on social networks.
