People don't come into our lives by chance
Though sometimes we marvel at fate.
And she's a cheat, it seems to be by accident
Brings the people we need into our lives.
All of them, whatever they are.
They leave a trace in our Souls.
And it doesn’t matter joyful, offended,
After all, there are no accidents in nature.
If in life you met a person.
It means that God decided to tell you something.
So you better take your courage
And try to learn all the "lessons".
Analyze carefully, diligently.
Paragraph by paragraph, following correctly.
Happiness, joy - be sure to remember.
They entered your life for a reason.
All grievances, fears, mistrust,
Learn, close your textbooks.
And forget what's been done
To keep the pain out of step with you.
Now think how much joy
God sent to you through people.
So rejoice at each new meeting,
The Almighty has thousands of ideas.
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Ninochka thank you very much)) but I'm so tired of this. It seems useless to me even to try to prove something of my own. They’ll steal it anyway ((I think it’s like that for everyone. True, I don’t understand the meaning of these actions, but)) once I posted a quatrain as a status in classmates - I didn’t post it here - I thought I would add it - and went into shock when I saw how it was taken away. There is even one smart guy who corrected a verse from male and posted it here. Can you imagine? There is no limit to human rudeness
I also started with the fact that I first found one of my poems on one site, and then ... on 12 more sites. Basically, the author is honestly written everywhere - me, people just inserted my lines in discussions, but I was most offended when I saw my poems on commercial sites either without authorship, or, like this, for example, I sent you, under a different name. This spurred me on so much, I was not too lazy and sent letters to everyone saying that they violate my copyright, and I have to turn to the judicial authorities. There were those who apologized and deleted my works, while the correspondence continues with the rest ...
As for rudeness, I agree with you. I terribly disrespect it in people and also get tired of its ubiquitous distribution in any form. Yes, spiritual purity is now oh how lacking for many!
Thank you for answering me.
Sincerely,
My good ones! As Tsvetaeva said: "The poet does not write poetry, poetry comes from above."
And these are precisely the verses that came from above, but for what? Not for the pride of the author, not for him to fight to defend his rights. Are they yours then?
Let them diverge as much as possible, let them appropriate, since they appropriate, it means it sunk into the soul, it means it hit the spot, it means its own, native person I accepted it, opened my heart, let it into my soul... Isn't that why poems are written...?
And I thank the author for this verse, which gave me a very great awareness and greatly changed my life!
Thank you
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So, why do we feel joy next to some people, annoyance with others, attraction with others, longing with others? What causes such different emotions?
Because each of those whom we meet on our way came for a reason. He came to help us. And each carries its own task and emotion for us.
The point is that we are one organism. Humanity. I wasn't the first to tell you about this. This is the basis of many philosophical worldviews.
And we attract to ourselves those “cells” of a single human organism that we need. Of course, a single human organism is controlled from above, you can call it God, but for the convenience of the theory about the organism, let's say - the Unified Brain.
The organism itself is not aware of this control. Just like our body is not aware of how it breathes and how it digests food. This is controlled by the brain. So in a single humanity, where each of us is a “cell”, we do not understand why and how events occur, but the Brain knows exactly what it is doing.
Sometimes these people "treat" the hurt. Sometimes with love. It all depends on the "disease". The most painful in treatment are stuck in illusions and pride. These two diagnoses call into our lives people who begin to destroy our attitudes, principles, outlook on life. It's very painful. The man begins to grumble: “What do I need all this for? What have I done? Why me?" But if you understand the whole process as a whole, pain can be avoided. If you treat with gratitude those who came to “treat” you, the “treatment” will be faster and more efficient.
So, if in your life appeared: aggressors, people with opposite views on life, and with an active life position, i.e. they will not be silent, people who interfere with your progress, humiliate you, educate you, etc. - you are ill with pride. Doctors have been sent to you. And you should not think that "doctors" are pleased with their "work". They do it unconsciously, sometimes genuinely wondering why you are so unpleasant to them.
Pride is cured by acceptance. By the way, as a person with a lot of experience with pride, I can say that acceptance is even better medicine than forgiveness. I recently released a course half of which is devoted to the practices of acceptance, and they work just amazing! Moreover, all you need to do is listen to meditations.
Don't forget that you, in turn, are other people's doctors too. These are our common lessons.
The second painful lesson, as I said, is illusion. We are accustomed to consider life as we imagine it to be. Those. in fact, we begin to break out of the general organism, to build around ourselves a special, fantastic world. That's how cancer cells behave, by the way. The One Brain will be forced to try and bring you back to reality. Initially, it was conceived as a state of freedom and love. But we stay in it only in infancy. Then we begin to actively invent non-existent worlds.
As soon as you have invented an illusion for yourself, people are sent to you who are able to destroy it. For example, you read novels and believed that people should be faithful to each other. Moreover, they believed so strongly that do not imagine a relationship where at least a shadow of betrayal could flash by. All. A "landing force" of traitors has already been sent to you. They will "teach" you until you understand. Everything happens in life. Life cannot be limited. Relationships are part of development. Everything can be forgiven. And so it is with any illusion if it becomes vital to you. If without it you cannot imagine happiness.
Of course, everyone would like to be joyful, rich and healthy. But if these qualities are too significant for you, “doctors” will come and destroy your illusions.
Because the world is unpredictable. It is based on freedom of choice and therefore changes constantly. Freedom of choice is not only yours. You must respect the freedom of choice of each individual. And that means not experiencing negative emotions when the other person chooses to act one way and not another. He has a right to it. And they will also send "doctors" to him.
And these endless treatments will continue for as long as it takes for you to understand - you are being looked after. You are helping to grow the one body of humanity. Grow and develop. You are a cell of a single organism in which everything is going right, despite the fact that you, the cell, think that you could arrange everything much better. Despite the fact that you, a cell that does not see the whole organism and does not suspect how it works, it seems that you could become different, better, bigger, stronger ... Until you realize that you are already perfection. That you are in the right place. That all you need to do is follow your heart, consider those around you, and love everything around you, because that's what reality is. When you learn this, then such a desired prosperity will come.
The people who are "sent" to us are of several kinds.
1. directly doctor. Ambulance. It is called in emergency cases when a person does not hear either intuition, or signals from the outside, or the heart, when he is immersed in his illusions so much that he can only be pulled out with a "hit on the head." In general, they call an ambulance. Most of the world's population prefers this method of treatment, alas.
2. castle man. A person suddenly appears beside you, whom you cannot guess. It is not clear to you, but it is interesting. He is not always cute, it happens that the man-castle is annoying. You are trying with all your might to find the key to him, to understand his motives, his thoughts. Such people are sent to us when the time has come for spiritual growth, new relationships, new achievements. It's time to step outside the boundaries of your own world.
3. key man. These are the people next to whom you open new horizons in yourself. You suddenly discover that, it turns out, you are not shy about singing loudly in the street. That you can think outside the box. That you have goals and dreams. That you, it turns out, know how to be brave (cowardly, aggressive, etc. - it doesn’t matter what exactly you discover, the main thing is that it’s new for you). Such people are sent to us when the time has come to know ourselves more deeply.
4. Alarm clock man. People of high spiritual level. Not necessarily gurus or saints. But these are high vibrating people. Next to them you feel out of place. You then get lost, as in front of a teacher at school. Either you feel good next to him, then he starts to annoy. And the longer you are near the "alarm clock", the more transformations are launched in your personality. Insights dawn on you. You suddenly understand something you thought you always knew—in a new way. You change your attitude to ordinary things. You start to see things differently. You wake up. And not always the “alarm clock” does something for this. He might just live next door. But more often "alarm clocks" are those.
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Usually we do not pay attention to the number of lonely people, until we ourselves somehow suddenly fall into their number. So you lived, you lived, you didn’t grieve, and all the time someone surrounded you: either parents, then children, friends, acquaintances, loved ones ... And suddenly ...
How long can you live without communication? All alone? Hour? Two? Day? a week? So that it doesn’t burden you, doesn’t press down and doesn’t make you unhappy ... I can’t stand it for long ..
It's strange: when there is someone next to you, you somehow see everything around you differently, you feel, you feel ... And the snow seems somehow special to you, and the rain does not wet, and the wind invigorates ... And when even the sun does not please anyone ... And the dark spots on it become somehow blatantly ugly, and the head hurts, and the heart aches, and the mood does not rise above zero ...
Why do we definitely need someone to brighten up these agonizing moments of inner turmoil and fill our lives with meaning? Why can't we deal with our own conditions? After all, by and large, the world is our ideas about it. Change your perceptions and change the world!
I change them, change them! Only for some reason I definitely need a witness who would record these changes, or just be present at the same time ... Why?
I don't know why! Needed and all! Without it, somehow everything is dull and gray, and I don’t need it at all. Lazy what? How can you cook a three-course meal when you're alone and there's a sausage and a glass of yogurt in the fridge? You'll get another crust of bread, and that's it, sweet deal. Why strain, cook, fry, soar. Grabbed something hastily and is ready for work and defense.
Another thing is if someone is nearby. Then God himself ordered to cook something tasty. You can cook borscht or fry cutlets. To please and rejoice in the joint eating of some delicacy.
So it is in life. This "someone" is needed to cook something, strain, bungled from own life because he is a witness, he can appreciate, he can share with you joy and sorrow, if necessary. From his participation, sadness becomes less, and joy more. Haven't tried? Yes, you all know that! And of course, internally, do not be proud of your loneliness at all, if it happens to you sometimes.
But it is also not worth falling into panic and hibernation, giving up on yourself and indulging in despondency about your imperfection. Because the point here is not perfection, but the fact that during this period of your life you need loneliness! “The council is destined in the highest ...” But why do you need it now - figure it out for yourself!
Maybe you should learn to be yourself. Or maybe they would know how to appreciate others, and would not scatter real feelings and friends. Surely, it was given to you for self-improvement and introspection. Dig deeper, and suddenly you will find a treasure in your soul that you didn’t even suspect about, carried away by the pursuit of imaginary values ...
To find something, you have to lose something. You can't really say. What do you miss the most in life? Right now there is a chance to understand it. Just don't rush. Hurry up - make yourself laugh ...
We are in such a hurry back to the state of “with someone”, we are so afraid of uncertainty and inconsistency with the general statistical standards of life, where someone should always be near us, dear and warm, that we are ready to take for him any more or less identifiable for "his". similar and recognizable.
Only before we have time to fill a new salt shaker to comprehend our soul mate, we suddenly realize that this is not a soul mate at all. And a joint pood of salt, which we definitely need to eat with her, we simply can not master.
And we also love to flip. We brush aside any connections that are inappropriate for us, without even bothering to taste them. We came up with ideals for ourselves and rush about with them, as with a hand-written sack. But ideals, in principle, do not exist, because we are all living people, and nothing human is alien to us!
Any person who comes into our life is necessary for us for something. And accepting his presence in our lives with gratitude, we will learn to understand why he came. Perhaps to bring us joy or self-confidence, information or a lesson, to help or hinder, to strengthen our character and develop our soul, or maybe to test our strength and try to destroy? Understand! To do this, you have a head and a heart, a body and intuition. But in any case, this gift must be accepted from life with gratitude.
We buy into our fears and fall into our own traps. And we think, proud people, that we learn from the mistakes of others. In fact, a person can learn something only by stepping on his own rake.
Other gardeners - lovers of such rakes in the same enviably constant version will have to experience more than a dozen on their cast-iron forehead until the true meaning of the events taking place with them reaches them.
And if you free my speech from allegories and say it easier, then in order to reduce trauma in such an important and necessary matter for every person as the search for “someone”, you need to follow just a few simple rules:
1. Be yourself.
2. Don't rush.
3. Be grateful to life for what it gives him at the moment.
That's all! It seems that it is so simple, even elementary, banal and known to everyone. And try to put it into practice! How many reservations, conditions, various obstacles will immediately creep out in abundance from various cracks in order to complicate everything, ruin and trivialize everything.
And yet I will try. After all, no one can do it for me. And if there is no one next to me now, it means that I have not yet learned to put into practice these elementary rules of life ...
I know that you are somewhere, my only, dearest little man in the world. I'm coming to you, I'm waiting for you. For a long time. Patiently going through the rosary of events and dates, faces and touches. Looking into the trembling space of our invisible interaction, saturating it with the bright thirst for our connection, I am filled with confidence and love. And I burn like a star in the sky. To make it easier for you to see me. And you're still gone and gone... Where are you, my sun?
Our Universe has unique and inimitable ways of connecting human destinies. In search of happiness, people change cities and countries, people and circumstances. But in parallel with our plans, invisible work is being done by the most main Center Cosmic Coincidence Control.
There are no accidents! What we consider coincidences is the hand of God guiding us into Right place, at the right time. Nothing is impossible for God. Everything that happens to you is not something else, but the fruit of your innermost desires and plans.
If your desires come from the heart, then know that the Universe will surely answer them with a chain of coincidences, circumstances that will give you what you want. God knows everything about you, all your secret, innermost desires and motives. All terms and times, addresses of residence and your plans are subject to him.
God has his own plan for your life, and you do everything in your power and do not panic in vain, leave writing the history of your life to the main author of the universe. Develop, learn, live, plan, dream, do everything possible and depending on you as a person, leave the rest for higher powers. Your ability to ask and set goals is just as important as your ability to let go, trust and trust the Universe.
Everyone you meet along the way is actor in the script you wrote. Your only concern is to constantly improve the script to make the film better. Directing your film is your responsibility.
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It is believed that every person who comes into our lives does not appear in it by chance.
Each meeting is a piggy bank in our personal life experience We are all teachers and students for each other at the same time.
There is a concept that all accidents in our life are not accidental.
When something unpleasant happens in life, we ask ourselves the question: “why do I need this”, if we meet unpleasant people, we also ask ourselves “why did this person appear in my life”.
Find out the answer to this question, what kind of people come into our lives and why.
1. Breathe life into you, warm your soul, give strength to live
Such people appear in especially difficult moments of life, when it is hard on the soul, when material or spiritual, psychological help is needed. They, like Guardian Angels, appear at the right moment and support us with their confident shoulder, warm the heart, and allow the soul to recover. And they don't ask for anything in return. We receive the necessary help at the right time completely disinterestedly. Such a person-assistant may appear to do a good deed for you and disappear forever, you may never see him again, but you will never forget him, remembering with gratitude and warmth.
2. Unlock your potential, awaken your soul
This is a human teacher who will give you the knowledge you can no longer live without. This person will wake up your spirit, give an impetus to understanding what interests you most in this life, what you would like to do, what to devote your life to. He will awaken your curiosity, open the chest with your questions, which will fall like peas. After meeting with such a teacher, your life will no longer be the same, it will have a place for a passionate desire for self-development and self-knowledge.
3. Become a close friend for life
Such people come into your life to stay in it forever, to share your joys and sorrows, to go through life hand in hand, overcoming "fire, water and copper pipes." These are close friends, husband (wife). This is your environment, a close circle of like-minded people who appear in your life and become an integral part of it.
4. People are punishment, a mirror image of your flaws.
Agree, it is very difficult to admit that we ourselves have shortcomings. For ourselves, we are good, kind, honest. And there are people who are rude for no reason, or answer unfriendly, or behave pompously, as if you are not a person, but a nonentity ... But it turns out that this person was sent specifically to show you your own behavior, to reflect, as if in a mirror, the way you are in relation to people. As, perhaps, you are often rude, harsh, proud in dealing with relatives, subordinates, work colleagues, just strangers. Such people were sent to give us the most valuable lesson, to help us become better, get rid of shortcomings, and sometimes even punish us for some of our “sin”.
5. Those that get rid of attachments, illusions and stereotypes
The world is multifaceted, you can’t argue with that, as they say, someone loves herring, and someone likes watermelon. Everyone has different tastes and behavior is different. Just as there is room for diversity in the world, there must be “permission” in your mind that other people can be drastically different from you. You don't have to love them, just accept them the way they are. You may not like how people are dressed, how they behave, what values they profess, etc., but at the same time you should not scold or get angry at them, teach and get annoyed. The more you get hung up on how the world around you should be, the more you will meet people who annoy you and do not correspond to your principles.
Live the way you want and let others live the way they want.
6. People-students, those who came to learn something from you
Each of us can become an example and a source of knowledge or skills for someone. Just as someone at one time was a teacher for you in life, so you can pass on your personal experience to another person. Do not refuse help or advice if you are asked about it, the Universe sends people for a reason who need your knowledge and your help, reasonable advice and support in a certain period of life.
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