When the head of the family does not have leadership qualities and all family members are left to their own devices, the wrong balance of power breeds discord.
Hexagram 38 is an interpretation of the inevitable clash of trigrams, personifying two daughters or just a couple of women who cannot live peacefully in one house. According to the Chinese book, discord does not lead to stagnation, but only small things end favorably in such conditions, which is what the symbol says.
Hexagram 38 Kui, Discord (Separation, Divergence).
- LEE (FIRE) FROM ABOVE. CLARITY. MIDDLE DAUGHTER. SOUTH. EYE.
- BLOW (POD) FROM BELOW. CONDUCTIVITY. YOUNGER DAUGHTER. WEST. MOUTH.
Good for small things.
The pictogram is a synthesis of two trigrams, one of which reflects the fire moving upward, and the other - the reservoir, tending to the depths, i.e. down. In addition, water represents the north, while the fire element represents the south. The opposite direction of forces and their heterogeneous essences give rise to discord. At the same time, we can talk about the creation of a very dangerous power - water vapor, which sets in motion large-scale engine mechanisms.
Hexagram 38, Kui, Discord predicts an unfavorable situation for those who have a fragile consciousness. If the mind is sufficiently developed, the perception of the predetermination of the final of internal processes is more positive.
The main problem in a person’s current life situation is complex relationships that lead to a dead end or require quarrels and partings. The difference of people should be recognized and the definition of winners should be completed. It's just that partners, according to the book of fate, always have one of the energies prevailing: either Yin or Yang. Therefore, one is characterized by whims, resentment and sensuality, while the other is recklessness, harshness and aggression. Under such conditions, it is impossible to achieve peace.
Characteristics of Yao according to Zhou Gong
- Nine initial. The horse runs away, but will soon return on its own, so you should not run. The secret blessing is coming soon. Be polite and careful if someone is angry with you or angry for taking a firm stand in any way. Don't make mistakes.
- Second nine. On a narrow street you can meet the owner. If you ambitiously demonstrate your successes, you will periodically meet with praise. A meeting with someone who is on your side in the current conflict is coming soon.
- Six third. The Book of Changes Yao connects the interpretation of hexagram 38 in this with the image of a cart that went back. Do not be afraid of bad consequences, join forces with a like-minded person, and the truth will be on your side. Your show of interest is actually hiding your liking for other things.
- fourth nine. An ally met in isolation can be trusted. Dangerous times won't lead to regrets. Remember that learning is endless. Now the world has not appreciated your talents, but confirmation of your skills will come soon.
- Six fifth. You can be among the first to admire the work of other people. Beware of flatterers, because they can betray. You have positive thoughts, so you will soon find a sincere ally.
- Top nine. A future comrade at first glance may seem like a robber. Do not rush to destroy his power, it is better to wait, and then the relief of the situation will happen by itself. Actions are now carried out by you involuntarily. You can not wait for the necessary information, like the return of a goose or a fish.
Detailed meaning of the hexagram
- In the process of discord, you should not be too active, so the position of alienation and detachment from events is the best. A full study of the sign says that you can wait out an unpleasant time and go with the flow. It will be necessary to act later, but now it is important to simply observe and understand the circumstances. This experience is enough for future success.
- Passivity does not mean the absence of meetings with high-ranking officials. The nobleman can also be met during discord. In this case, the person will show mercy and condescension towards you.
- The third line always speaks of an excess of attention, as shown by the Yijing, the book of changes. The interpretation of this situation signals the fictitious significance of external actions. Turning too often to the arguing parties, a person stands still and does not move forward. Therefore, one must call oneself to the correct behavior: the start of the situation has already been given, but the ending of the discord is directly determined by the actions of the individual.
- During the discord, some parties were left standing all alone. This is a terrible state, but you can count on fast support from higher people. If such help is true, then the forces to overcome the situation will be found very quickly.
- The way out of the circumstances of discord finally becomes visible to a person. As the 38th hexagram of the book of changes shows, the fault of the subject himself in this whole life situation is absent, so he has nothing to repent of. Here again, support from the outside is found even in conditions of great distance between people.
- Now the highest point of discord is manifesting. The situation is ugly and dirty, its power is so great that any struggle is futile. False relationships between individuals are getting stronger. You just have to wait until the apogee of the crisis passes by. The tense atmosphere will soon ease, and happiness will come.
Extended interpretation of the sign
Confusion, depression and a sense of the hostility of the world - now the situation irritates a person and gives rise to dissatisfaction with himself and others. But soon everything will change, so for now you should accept and pull yourself together. The decoding of the symbol suggests that it is useless to influence any events in the current life period, so there is no need to waste your nerves and time. In addition, emotions rule the mind, and many things seem distorted, exaggeratedly bad.
The time of relaxation should not be combined with new things on a large scale. Good luck will come only during the implementation of small ideas and household plans. The lack of harmony is annoying, but it will not work to find sympathy in the outside world. Moreover, one person will significantly add fuel to the fire and get on your nerves.
Book of Changes 38 designates a pictogram as a time of control over one's actions and words. Everything that now seems interesting, in fact, is not at all included in the circle of innermost desires. As for personal relationships, they are characterized by fatigue from constant adaptation to each other. You can temporarily part, but it is better to abandon the artificially created torment.
In business, it is useful to go into the shadows for a subsequent spectacular return. Now you just need to expand your circle of friends and accumulate worldly experience. The abundance of impressions will help to find a common language with competitors and allies. Of course, at first there will be troubles and a tense atmosphere, but soon anxiety will give way to mutual understanding.
Now opposites meet a person at every step, as the book of Yijing predicts. The interpretation of the hexagram, however, is that it is a necessary part of useful life lessons. At the end of this period, you will find a golden mean, balance in views and actions.
This time also reveals the mistakes of the previous stage related to household chores. If some events get out of control, it means that you could not be objective and persistent in your intentions towards the family earlier. Analyze all the ideas again and choose the exact path to achieve the goals. Just do not solve global problems right now, otherwise you will run into trouble.
During this period, you should not attend social events, it is better to pass for passive and boring. Forgive people for their grievances about this, but do not lose your sense of tact and restraint. Better get rid of current problems rather than getting involved in new possible conflicts with the environment.
Communicate only with pleasant colleagues and close friends - this will help to avoid depression. Do not stay idle, because, according to the book of changes, sad thoughts in your free time can drag on for a long time. It is much more pleasant to feel tired than to suffer from worries about the future.
Associative reading of the hexagram
- The peach tree blossoms. This is the image of spring.
- The gates are closed. The personification of the return of a person to the house.
- Ax in the hands of a man. Chinese book changes, the meaning of this plot reduces to the possession of strength and power.
- The papers are torn. A symbol of the difficulty of choosing between retreating and lunging forward.
- The flight of the snow goose under his cackle. It reflects a change in the situation not in the desired direction.
- Mouse and Bull. Good luck will come in hours, days, months and years of these animals.
- The main symbol is a couple of girls living together.
- The central image - a ferocious tiger is trapped.
Interpretation of the sign by Wen-wang
- The multidimensional perception of the sign suggests that success comes in small things.
- The coexistence of fire and water is impossible in any conditions.
- The team is divided into halves due to a quarrel. In such circumstances, one should work on the issue that does not cause problems.
- The February pictogram is harmless in spring, but unfavorable in winter and summer.
How to interpret a symbol when divining
- Love relationships are complicated by contradictions. Passion is replaced by alienation, and gender conflicts intensify. Life in the family is also aggravated by the deterioration of health: nervous breakdowns due to trifles are likely.
- Business is characterized by instability and frequent losses. Friendly partners become distant. You try to hide the negative results of the work, but it is pointless.
- The social position according to the Yijing book is very precarious. The problem lies in the unclear understanding of the purpose and the lack of leadership skills. As for politics, the opposition of opponents reaches highest point and they don't understand each other. Now the wrong behavioral strategy has been chosen, which makes it difficult to distinguish good from evil. Analyze the situation.
- Interpersonal interaction is also complicated by mistakes. Need advice from a sage. In the family, now the children are out of hand, and the spouses are always quarreling. We urgently need to change behavior.
Hexagram 38 is the interpretation of an urgent call for life change. It's time to look again at past mistakes and stop repeating them. It is very important to moderate your activity and wait for more favorable conditions.
There is some level of alienation. For example, when siblings get married, they move away as their devotion goes to new families. While they will remain close enough to deal with problems and share minor interests, they will not be able to pursue big projects together. Simply put, when people drift away—even for the most natural reasons—their points of view, values, and interests diverge.
Different natures and interests bring opposition into the world of human affairs. If the opposition drifts in alienation and enmity, then it does not give good results. But when opposition takes the form of healthy competition, or when it is only part of the natural order of things and is recognized as such, relationship success is still possible.
When divergent interests make a situation seem stagnant or unhelpful, remember that there are always creative possibilities inherent in polarity. One of them recalls the interaction of opposites, yin and yang, which is fundamental to life itself. And, as the Tao symbol illustrates, yin and yang have the seed of another living within them.
When opposition has its roots in matters of principle, stick to your integrity and individuality. Let go of vulgar people who don't share your values. For both individuals and companies, one of the indicators of growth is the quality of competition.
Line interpretation:
Line 1 (bottom line)
Trying to correct rifts caused by small misunderstandings can lead to situations similar to those of a man whose horse has run away from the barn. If a person runs after a horse in a futile attempt to capture him, the horse runs faster and further. But if the man just comes home, the matter will be settled quite easily, because the horse will return to the barn when he is hungry or thirsty. Let go and resolve petty disputes; and let the other person come back on its own. Going over the edge in petty disputes can lead you to further improve your goal, but make the reconciliation process more difficult. Caution justified against negative people who may have imposed themselves on you, perhaps their appearance in your life is an accidental misunderstanding. In this case, active intervention is likely to generate hostility and cause more problems. The best action on this moment is to just endure them until they eventually go away on their own.
This is a difficult time to meet people in your circle with whom you have misunderstandings. However, if you have a chance to meet "by chance", there may be an opportunity to compromise, provided that there is an inner closeness between you. This can only happen if you let go of distrust and allow yourself to be open to the other's feelings.
This is Murphy's Law line: "Everything that could go wrong, went wrong." Sometimes it may seem that the universe is against you, but when the opposition to progress reaches its climax, a discovery soon happens. When luck is out, the best strategy might be to team up with someone whose luck is better than yours right now. WITH right attitude and perseverance luck as a result returns.
If you find yourself in a group of people with whom you have little in common, the seeds of opposition can turn into personal isolation. In such circumstances, the ideal solution is to find someone with whom you share deep interests and whom you can trust. Through the acquisition of a good friend or partner, internal opposition can be overcome.
When someone with sincere intentions seems against you at first, look deeper. Perhaps you have misjudged this person, or that you have somehow made a mistake in your own views or behavior. In this world sincere people should meet openly: how could that be a mistake?
Line 6 (top line)
Alienation can arise from the inability to clearly perceive the world. Overly defensive people often attribute sinister motives to others, even to those who would be their friends. This kind of thinking leads to isolation. All that is needed to reverse this cycle is to observe the world more closely, without prejudice, and to be honest about possible mistakes in relation to oneself. This will lead to an increase in self-esteem, which can damage the very root of the problem. Those who think well of others tend to feel good about themselves, and vice versa.
Kui (Discord): divide, resist, move in different directions; discord, conflict; distant, remote; hostility, anger; astronomical opposition; complete opposite on the same coordinate axis.
Happiness in small things.
This is a time of discord and confrontation. People are moving in different directions. Adapt to circumstances and do not impose your will; then the path will be open. Turn conflicts into creative contradictions. Discord implies alienation. You are confronted with the outside, the foreign, the unfamiliar. By separating things from each other, you can see the basis for putting them together. For example, Heaven and Earth oppose each other, but act together. The masculine is opposite to the feminine, but their goals often coincide. The whole host of beings is different, but they are engaged in similar things. Look at what separates people and unites them. This will help to comprehend the essence of true greatness.
If the family is arranged incorrectly, i.e. if, first of all, the head does not develop it in himself necessary qualities if the family is left to itself, then discord necessarily arises in it, i.e. the situation discussed here. This hexagram is commented on from the next side. The trigrams that make up it, according to the family symbolism of the Book of Changes, denote the middle daughter and the youngest daughter, i.e. two women. As Chinese commentators say, two women cannot live in peace in the same house, discord necessarily arises between them. Of course, and in such an environment, something can be done, but these are only insignificant small things. Therefore, the text here speaks of small deeds that can be favorable. On the other hand, this image, regardless of the symbolism of the family, is also considered by commentators as follows: the upper trigram here is fire, which can rise, move upward; the lower trigram here is a reservoir, it is characterized by movement in depth, i.e. down. Thus, a gap occurs between the upper and lower trigrams, which is most clearly expressed in the 12th hexagram. As there was disintegration, so here there is discord.
External and inner worlds: Fire and Water (Fog)
The conflict between inner form and outer radiance is maintained in a creative balance.
Discord and confrontation contain a hidden possibility of liberation from the accumulated tension.
Subsequence
When the path of the household is exhausted, discord inevitably sets in. Realizing this resolves the contradiction.
Definition
Discord means that which is outside.
Symbol
Fire above, mist below. discord.
The noble person (in equal measure) reconciles and divides.
Hexagram lines
Line 1Nine first
Repentance will disappear.
When you lose a horse, don't chase it. He will return himself.
If you see an evil person, there will be no blasphemy.
Don't solve your problems with a cavalry charge. What you have lost will come back on its own. Do not take part in violent conflicts. It is enough to see the essence of a bad person in order to protect yourself from his actions.
During discord, the best thing is not to take part in it, leaving events to flow by themselves and, without interfering with them, wait until the situation is over and something can be done. It is enough to see this discord, and the very contemplation of it and the understanding of its quality will make it possible to direct one's activity in such a way that it does not lead to a bad result. So, it is enough to see an evil person as exactly evil in order to understand how one should behave towards him, and thereby protect oneself from his actions.
Line 2
Nine second
You will meet the gentleman in the alley.
There will be no bullshit.
You have an important meeting with someone who will help and guide you on the right path. This is not an accident.
The passive, expectant position that must be taken here does not exclude the possibility of meeting with the higher, for it may also find itself in such a backwater, which is the atmosphere of discord. The fact that this meeting is possible here is explained by the commentators through the image of the correspondence between the second position and the fifth, which is characterized by the quality of softness and suppleness in the context of this hexagram, i.e. the quality of gracious indulgence.
Line 3
Six third
You will see that the cart is pulled back and the ox is detained.
The man's hair and nose are cut off.
The beginning is not in your power, but the end is in your power.
You pay more attention to events than they deserve. As a result, you are marking time and losing strength. What is happening is not your fault, but you can put an end to it.
The third position, located between the second and fourth, inclines a person to the fact that he pays more attention to them than he should. It is precisely here that one should not pay attention to the actions of the environment, i.e. second and fourth positions, which, competing with each other, represent this discord. On the contrary, if a person paid attention to the influence from the outside, to the arguing parties, then this would mean that he stopped at this position, while it is precisely from this position that he needs to leave. This would mean that he was deprived of the opportunity to move forward, or, in other words, he subjected himself to execution. In order to overcome this, one must think that in this situation the person himself is innocent, the beginning of this situation is not in his power, and only right behavior with his own, he can achieve that the end of this situation will be made such as it is necessary for him.
Line 4
Nine fourth
Discord and loneliness.
If you meet a great husband and if the relationship with him is true,
Although it is terrible, it will not be blasphemy.
In solitude and solitude, you meet with a higher power. If the connection with her is true (that is, the connection in spirit), then you will find the strength to overcome discord in yourself. The situation is difficult, but no one will condemn you for what you have done.
The first position was characterized by the desire to let events flow as they flow. Therefore, the forces of the first position do not have any influence on the rest of the events. And the fourth position, which, according to the law of correspondences, could only be supported by the first, is indicated by the symbol of the one who is left all alone in the time of discord. Here one should not rely so much on support from the first position, but on connection with the one who is symbolized in the next position. Of course, this situation can be called terrible, but if the connection with the superior is true, then even in solitude will be found necessary forces to overcome discord.
Line 5
Six fifth
Repentance will disappear.
This accomplice will bite through the skin.
If you speak, then what kind of blasphemy can there be?
Your troubles and sorrows disappear. The person met in the second position bites through the skin - that is, cuts through the partition and restores your connection with the outside world. You are filled with new strength. This time is favorable for decisive action and a way out of a situation of discord.
The fifth position, finally, leads to the fact that a way out of the situation of discord is outlined. Therefore, with the right action on it, there will be nothing to repent of. In addition, the fifth position here can find support in the person who is represented by the second trait. If she is away from this person at a certain distance and two features separate them, like a partition, the “skin” that the text speaks of, then nevertheless, by virtue of correspondence, this obstacle can be eliminated. And the best thing, with the full development of the forces needed to overcome discord, is to step out of this situation.
Line 6
Top nine
Discord and loneliness.
You will see a pig covered in mud.
You will see demons filling the chariot.
Draw the bow first, then lay it aside.
If not for the robber, there would be a marriage.
If, speaking, you meet the rain, then there will be happiness.
Discord appears before you in all its dirt and inertia. You realize that this is a false state, devoid of inner meaning. Attempts to fight it are useless, because it should pass by itself. The time for reconciliation has not yet arrived, but the détente expressed in the form of rain opens the way to a better future.
In the sixth position, i.e. at the apogee of discord, discord appears before a person in all its strength, in all its filth and ugliness. If a person is here and takes some actions against him, then he can soon be convinced that these actions are futile, because discord, like a false relationship between people, is devoid of substantiality. Such a person will see that these are not genuine, and therefore impermanent relationships between people. Therefore, if he takes any actions against discord, he will soon realize that these actions are unnecessary, because the situation should pass by itself. There could be a complete reunification of the warring parties. But still, discord itself, personified in the image of a robber, still continues to operate here. But its action is such that, by virtue of the end of this situation, the tense atmosphere must be discharged, as if a thundercloud should pour rain.
Description of external and hidden hexagrams
In the MANIFESTED WORLD conflict relations between primary elements (fire, water). Water extinguishes fire - a natural course of events.
The flame of fire shot up to the sky, illuminating everything around. The situation became extremely clear and caused a storm of emotions and passions.
The fire, heating the earth, woke up the underground lake. Water from underground gushed to the surface. Passions helped to discover internal reserves for resolving an emotionally tense situation.
Fire evaporates water, water puts out fire. The conflict continues.
The fire goes out. Clouds of steam. A joyful decision that came with internal plan extinguish the fire of conflict. A clear understanding of what is happening, traction with what is happening, great emotions (properties of fire) will fade into the background.
Streams of water bring gold bars to the surface from the bowels of the earth. As a result of this, a valuable treasure will be found, how to resolve such situations. Where a fire blazed before, tomorrow gold bars will sparkle in the sun. A conflict emotionally tense situation will help to find a valuable treasure.
ON THE SUBCONSCIOUS antagonistic relationship between the primary elements (fire, water). Fire displaces large water - the reverse, unnatural course of events. This is possible only with a very large predominance of fire over water. Since there is a lot of water here, the power of fire on the subconscious is truly enormous.
spread wide under blue sky boundless and dangerous ocean. It is a dive, a focus on great danger.
A giant volcano has woken up at the bottom of the ocean. Something very powerful is awakening in the depths of the subconscious, which will radically change the situation. A powerful flame illuminates everything around and evaporates water. Clouds of steam will cover everything. Through illumination, everything hidden will become extremely clear. Big emotions will push everything else out of life into the background and lead to the loss of a clear understanding of what is happening.
Where recently there were dangerous ocean depths, tomorrow the raging flames will reach the heavens. Immersion in a very dangerous situation in the future will be replaced by a clear understanding of what is happening, a great intensity of passions and emotions, and a strong grip on ongoing events.
General Interpretation of Hexagram No. 38
In the world of events, passions are boiling, and on the subconscious, immersion in a very dangerous situation. A clear understanding of what is happening will be simultaneously lost in the manifested reality and gained at the subconscious level. A flash of insight that came from the depths of the subconscious will allow you to harmonize the situation in the manifested reality with a joyful accomplishment. Finding a way to resolve similar life situations is a very valuable found treasure. If in the manifested reality everything works out in the best way with the loss of understanding of what is happening, then on the subconscious plane, on the contrary, an emotional fire flares up more and more, together with an increase in intuitive clarity. The fears experienced not only did not leave the subconscious when the situation was resolved, but, on the contrary, turn into a constant storm of emotions.
The meaning of the hexagram is complex protracted conflicts. Events in the manifested reality and at the subconscious level will develop in directly opposite directions. In the world of events, an emotionally tense situation will be successfully resolved. On the subconscious, a feeling of great danger will develop into an ever-increasing emotional stress. Anxiety emanating from the depths of the subconscious will directly contradict the real course of events. It's a fear from nothing, it's a fear from the past. At the same time, the energy of emotional tension on the subconscious is simply enormous: the fire of inner passions evaporates a whole ocean of water. It's kind of crazy: ignoring the joyful achievements of the here and now and focusing on yesterday's fears. DEPRESSION. This is a discord between a prosperous manifested reality and a deep emotional experience on the subconscious plane. The concentration of attention on past dangerous events increases (the property of fire is cohesion with the situation). DEPRESSION is a drama with complete external well-being, it is a focus on past dangers in spite of what is happening in reality.
Decisive, active actions in such an environment do not work at any level. You have to be subtle and slow. As a result of DEPRESSION, a very valuable treasure will be extracted from the inner plan, how to resolve such life problems. Probably, for the sake of this achievement, this situation is necessary. The best thing you can do in this situation is to objectively look at your life full of valuable achievements. It is advisable to focus on these achievements, on the joyful moments of life, understanding all the emptiness and groundlessness of fears and worries.
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MULTI-DIMENSIONALITY
(OPPOSITE VIBRATION OF HEXAGRAM #38)
JOY
JOY comes when the chain of events matches our innermost dreams. DEPRESSION often sets in when our hopes are dashed. JOY and DEPRESSION are the opposite emotions of a person who has expectations, aspirations and hopes. If a person can get rid of expectations, then something completely new will open up for him! ___________________________________________________________
DEPRESSION
FIRE GOES UP, WATER FLOWS DOWN. EVERYTHING IS MOVING IN DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS. FIND, PROTECT AND GROW A WIRE UNDER THICKNESS OF THE WATER AND THEN THE GOLDEN TREASURE WILL APPEAR FROM ITS DEPTHS.
Positions for awareness:
1. Depression - a state of severe depression, despondency. A person loses the ability to easily give and receive love.
2. Depression often happens when there is complete external well-being, when there is no need to struggle with difficulties. Depression is caused by an excessive sense of self-importance. Depression is the victory of the ego over the Higher Self. The ego was able to convince you that everything is dull, dreary and very bad.
3. Depression is evidence of a deep internal rethinking of all life values. This is a natural stage of spiritual growth. “Depression is like a lady in black. If she came, do not drive her away, but invite her to the table as a guest and listen to what she intends to say, ”- Carl Gustav Jung.
4. Depression is a complete destruction of the connection with your Higher Self, however, it is also a great opportunity to allow your Higher Self to establish a new, different, better connection with us.
5. Depression, despondency - this is the most serious sin. “Despondency is the relaxation of the soul, the exhaustion of the mind, the neglect of monastic deeds, hatred of the vow, the appeaser of the worldly, the slanderer of God, as if He is unmerciful and inhumane,” - John of the Ladder.
6. "There is no greater disaster than discontent" - Lao Tzu "Tao Te Ching".
7. “I don’t understand how you even live without depression. What do you do. Laugh all day long?" - John Rockefeller.
8. "Every madness has its own logic" - William Shakespeare.
10. The one who has not suffered deeply will never experience true bliss.
11. "Find peace in your soul, everything else will find you" - Sathya Sai Baba.
12. The essence of the realization of any person lies primarily in achieving high level inner happiness regardless of any external circumstances. Specific deeds and achievements are usually much less significant. As soon as a person begins to radiate a vibration of unhappiness, discontent, his spiritual degradation immediately begins, accompanied by the process of destruction of the physical body.
13. “First, the doctor makes a diagnosis, and then prescribes a course of treatment. In the same way, you must determine the diagnosis for your illness, namely suffering, anguish and pain, through internal self-examination. Study this matter fearlessly and with great attention, and you will find that your nature is bliss (Ananda)! You have mistakenly identified yourself with something temporary, superficial and insignificant, and attachment hurts.” – Sathya Sai Baba
14. “Have you ever seen an oak tree in a state of stress or a dolphin in a gloomy mood, a frog suffering from low self-esteem, a cat that cannot relax, or a bird burdened with resentment? Learn from them how to put up with the present.” – Eckhart Tolle
15. “Understand, everything depends on you. Understand, for your transformation depends on it. If you have hell in you, then wherever you go, you always create hell around you. Hell and heaven are not geographical concepts, they do not exist in outer space. They exist in the inner space,” Osho.
16. “The most liberating thing is knowing that people will never understand you. People always wear their own image of "you" - Jeff Foster. 17. “Before you diagnose yourself with depression and low self-esteem, make sure you are not surrounded by idiots.” - Sigmund Freud.
18. “Any depression should be met with a smile. Depression will think you're an idiot and run away." - Robert De Niro
19. “As soon as a person falls ill, he needs to look in his heart for whom he needs to forgive,” Louise Hay.
20. “As long as you fight the symptom, it will get worse. If you take responsibility for what you do to yourself, for how you create your symptoms, how you create your disease, how you create your existence, the very moment you touch yourself, growth begins, integration" - Fritz Perls.
21. “Life doesn’t owe you anything. If your attitude is like that, then you will be thankful for everything. What did you do to deserve 30 years of oxygenated fresh air? What have you done to keep your heart beating even when you sleep? What have you done to deserve anything at all? And who are you? If you think deeply about this, you will no longer suffer, but will begin to appreciate life in all its manifestations, ”- Mooji.
22. "To be serious about anything in this world is a fatal mistake" - Louise Hay.
23. “I'm paranoid in reverse. I suspect people are conspiring to make me happy.” - Jerome D. Salinger.
24. “There is no force working against you… except yourself. You may be temporarily ill or depressed, but your mind will never remain in a state it does not want to be in. Even in the darkest depression, there is a part of you that screams, "That's not me!" This thought alone will gradually bring you back.” - Kryon.
25. “When you are completely discouraged, come to my hospital. One bypass of the cancer department in no time cures any blues, ”- Erich Maria Remarque.
26. “Neurosis always replaces real suffering,” Carl Jung.
27. “Everyone knows that people have complexes. What is not so well known, though more theoretically important, is that complexes can have us.” – Carl Jung
28. “Psychoneuroses must be understood, ultimately, as the suffering of a soul that has not found the meaning of its existence,” Carl Jung.
29. "Memory is deceptive because it is colored by today's events" - Albert Einstein.
30. “Depression starts with disappointment. When disappointment blooms in our soul, it leads to loss of self.” – Joyce Meyer
31. “Depression taught me the importance of compassion and hard work. Thanks to her, you can overcome huge obstacles.” – Rob Delaney
32. "Depression is a frozen fear" - Sigmund Freud.
33. “How nice it is to fall into hopeless despair. This gives the right to sulk the whole world.” – Jean-Paul Sartre Words.
34. “Hi, depression friend, come in, sit down, I have so much good and sad music” - Ron Lee.
35. “I love my misfortune. It keeps me company. Sometimes, when I am temporarily happy, I even miss this thorn. It’s easy to get hooked on the blues,” Frederic Begbeder. Romantic egotist.
36. “Depression is the queen of negative emotions – it makes you think about yourself. All roads lead to her. She can be merciful and after her visit a person can start to take off, but often, if you mistreat her, she sentences you to death, ”- Mikhail Litvak. Command or obey?
37. “In the fall, too, there is a positive. You don't have to be afraid of this. Even in depression I like to fall for a while, it is nutritious for me. And to be all the time in some kind of stability, in contentment ... This, it seems to me, is some kind of piece of meat, and not a person. A person must suffer! ”, - Renata Litvinova.
38. "Depression is the inability to create the future" - Rollo May.
39. “Depression is the laziness of a conscientious person, not giving himself the right to be,” Vladimir Lvovich Levy.
40. “Laziness and depression are a signal system that says that you are not living your life,” Vladimir Dovgan.
41. “Our psyche often uses depression to get our attention and tell us that somewhere deep inside us lies a lie.” - James Hollis.
42. “Depression is just different in that during it we have no reason to be sad, and at the same time we are sad,” Janusz Wisniewski. Arrhythmia of the senses.
Confrontation, discord; turning a conflict into a creative contradiction with the help of conscious actions.
Name
Kui (Discord): divide, resist, move in different directions; discord, conflict; distant, remote; hostility, anger; astronomical opposition; complete opposite on the same coordinate axis.
figurative row
Happiness in small things.
This is a time of discord and confrontation. People are moving in different directions. Adapt to circumstances and do not impose your will; then the path will be open. Turn conflicts into creative contradictions. Discord implies alienation. You are confronted with the outside, the foreign, the unfamiliar. By separating things from each other, you can see the basis for putting them together. For example, Heaven and Earth oppose each other, but act together. The masculine is opposite to the feminine, but their goals often coincide. The whole host of beings is different, but they are engaged in similar things. Look at what separates people and unites them. This will help to comprehend the essence of true greatness.
Outer and Inner Worlds: Fire and Water (Fog)
The conflict between inner form and outer radiance is maintained in a creative balance.
Hidden Feature:
Discord and confrontation contain a hidden possibility of liberation from the accumulated tension.
Subsequence
When the path of the household is exhausted, discord inevitably sets in. Realizing this resolves the contradiction.
Definition
Discord means that which is outside.
Symbol
Fire above, mist below. discord.
The noble person (in equal measure) reconciles and divides.
Hexagram lines
Nine first
Repentance will disappear.
When you lose a horse, don't chase it. He will return himself.
If you see an evil person, there will be no blasphemy.
Don't solve your problems with a cavalry charge. What you have lost will come back on its own. Do not take part in violent conflicts. It is enough to see the essence of a bad person in order to protect yourself from his actions.
Nine second
You will meet the gentleman in the alley.
There will be no bullshit.
You have an important meeting with someone who will help and guide you on the right path. This is not an accident.
Six third
You will see that the cart is pulled back and the ox is detained.
The man's hair and nose are cut off.
The beginning is not in your power, but the end is in your power.
You pay more attention to events than they deserve. As a result, you are marking time and losing strength. What is happening is not your fault, but you can put an end to it.
Nine fourth
Discord and loneliness.
If you meet a great husband and if the relationship with him is true,
Although it is terrible, it will not be blasphemy.
In solitude and solitude, you meet with a higher power. If the connection with her is true (that is, the connection in spirit), then you will find the strength to overcome discord in yourself. The situation is difficult, but no one will condemn you for what you have done.
Six fifth
Repentance will disappear.
This accomplice will bite through the skin.
If you speak, then what kind of blasphemy can there be?
Your troubles and sorrows disappear. The person met in the second position bites through the skin - that is, cuts through the partition and restores your connection with the outside world. You are filled with new strength. This time is favorable for decisive action and a way out of a situation of discord.
Top nine
Discord and loneliness.
You will see a pig covered in mud.
You will see demons filling the chariot.
Draw the bow first, then lay it aside.
If not for the robber, there would be a marriage.
If, speaking, you meet the rain, then there will be happiness.
